Well Google is my friend. Sorry about my first post being graphic
I was asking about this exact topic and found this site.
My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We met when she was 15 and I was 21
We have 2 kids, 17 and 20 and one grand baby, 2 years old.
8 years ago I asked my wife to have sex with other guys. The rules were we had to talk about it while we had sex. She did not want to and it took awhile to convince her I really wanted her to.
She started flirting with a guy in the office and she would tell me about the flirting and it made the sex with us exciting. Then the guy would flirt and give her back rubs and that was exciting as well and I kept telling her to go all the way. She would say no.
One night she came home from work and rushed me into the bedroom and we started having sex and she told me she finally went all the way with the guy, while at work. I had the best orgasm EVER and she did as well.
We were hooked!
It has been going on these last 8 years with different guys, yes some were married. We knew all of them. None of them knew I knew what was going on though. My wife really gets excited when guys flirt with her.
Now here is my confession. I never have done it with any other women since we have been married.
I have recently wondered why and started analyzing myself.
I will not do it with other women because, the old cliche, I feel my penis is to small. YEAH YEAH YEAH, I know. My wife says that I am fine. But I think, well what else is she going to say, I mean we have been married 23 years!
My wife says she gets excited because she just turned 40 and guys young and old still want to flirt and have sex with her and then we get to talk about it. She is even talking about her doing it with another woman. She brought it up, not me. I would not mind it either.
So even though this entire thing excites the hell out of me, I am now wondering if I have a mental issue or if I am fine. I do not get jealous. Are we wrong for doing this even though we both love it?