Originally Posted by zoku32
Doesn't every guy orgasm during sex? Oh, and he is in his mid 30s so age shouldn't be a problem. Any experiences with this? Is this normal?
Worst thing you can do? Put YOUR focus on his orgasm. All that will do is put more pressure on him to perform ... which he won't be able to do because of the expectation.
No, every guy does not orgasm during sex. Some guys struggle with premature ejaculation ... others have the opposite issue.
I do find it interesting that for all of the women that will reassure their male partners that "it isn't them ..." when they can't have an orgasm, if the shoe is on the other foot, women wonder "What's wrong with him?" and they
Gives you just a hint of insight as to how much we in general worry about performance and acceptance.
Enjoy the ride, don't sweat the destination. Yep, I have the same issue. Certainly doesn't mean that I don't want sex.
Have had girlfriends that were amused when the event would go beyond the 5 minute mark, and eventually be horrified and self-conscious when we'd hit 30 minutes. For a very long time, I didn't know better. I didn't know that 'normal' was under 5 minutes. I thought everybody had sex for hours.
In my case, much like a large percentage of the female population ... intercourse is one of the least likely methods through which I will achieve an orgasm.
Go with what works. Don't sweat what doesn't. Trust me, he's still having a good time ... or at least he should be telling you if he isn't.