12-12-2011, 03:10 PM
Join Date: Oct 2011
| | Re: Please help - developing dislike of doing oral sex due to taste and texture
Originally Posted by Catherine602
My husband and I have been working on me swallowing and I am begining to dread doing oral sex on him because I keep thinking about the taste, texture, temperature of semen. I read a number of tips on the Internet, and books. Nothing has worked. Then in the last couple of weeks I began to think about the thinngs I did not like and felt I wanted to avoid doing it. I brought a book on meditation to try to overcome the reluctance but it did not help.
I do not want this to get out of hand so I am asking for some advice from women who have experienced this and overcome the problem.
The exact problem is that the thichness of semen, it seems to stick in my mouth for a long time, tried mints, brushing before. The taste - tried diet, different flavored lubes, I just developed a distaste for the lube. There is nothing to be done about temp unless I freeze my H. I was thinking of trying a condom but I read that some men are sensitive to their woman seeming to dislike their penis so I would only do this as a last resort and after discussion with him.
Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated.
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Quite frankly, if you have such a dislike for it, I don't think it'll change. And I honestly don't see why it has to. I honestly don't understand ( and I acknowledge that people have different views on that) what is so sexy about swallowing large quantities of other people's body fluids.
I remember the first time I did it, I almost passed out because it was so disgusting, the consistency, the taste, simply everything. And I didn't even swallow it, I just let him come in my mouth and when he was done I ran to sink, spit it out and spent the next 5 minutes brushing my teeth...*very sexy* :-)
I want to see the guy who would want to swallow an equal amount of women's secretion - and again: I am not talking about the regular wetness (comparable to a bit of pre-cum) when you get aroused but full loads of women's secretions. I'm sure there is some people who don't mind, but I am sure there is an equally large number of men who wouldn't do that.
I can understand having my feelings hurt if my partner was uncomfortable going down on me because of a little bit of pre-cum (or the equivalent for women) but I'd never want him to do anything that completely grosses him/her out to the point where sex would even become unenjoyable and s/he avoids it.
Just my $.02