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Old 09-28-2008, 12:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
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How long have you been married and how many times a week or month do you have intercourse?

Is it normail to masturbate together and or for each other without the actual intercourse? Not every time, but sometimes?
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5-10 times per week. 41 y/o married 17 together 19. I rub her if she has not already cum.
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10 times a week! Surely not the norm!
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I do my best to keep up with her

Why were you asking about the masturbation thing?
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Old 09-28-2008, 02:20 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Nothing, I just always thought of it as something at single people do!!! but maybe not!
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Can you explain more? Is it something your husband wants, that you don't or something you want that he doesn't?
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No is mutual, we don't have a problem with it.
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I just thought that from your question, you were trying to see if you were normal?
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Old 09-28-2008, 02:46 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Yes that's why I asked. Wondering if its normal.
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Used to be twice a day, every day, but down to about 2-4 times a week depending on life and whether or not we are getting along. Sometimes it's once a week.
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how long have you been married farfignewton?
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Oh, about 24/7 when I first got married. Man, was I tired. lol
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Have you got any idea how weird normal actually is? Look at the world we live in. Everybody needs to find what makes them feel whole - without looking over their shoulder too much. Well that's my take.
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Old 09-28-2008, 03:18 PM   #14 (permalink)
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No such a thing as being perfect or normal.

I'm 90% normal and 10% silly acting, or maybe that is the other way around.
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It is perfectly normal for the man to masturbate his wife or gf if she didnt coem as he did as as a rule men and women do not come together.. men will come first thats the way it is.
So hte man will have to make her come in another way.
Its not always like that but if couples only have sex by doing it until the man ejaculate and then let his wife deal with it on her own.. i think its a terrible marriage and a very egoistic way of making love..
So thats normal that he masturbate you if you didnt came.
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