So I married a nun...

whammy · 04-22-2011, 06:39 PM

not to be a jerk...but i dont think you married a nun. ALL WOMEN WANT SEX. your telling me that she wouldnt let brad pitt go down on her???? come on! wake up and get back in the gym...

when men think thier wives dont like sex, they never realize that its because the wives actually just dont want sex with the husbands

frustr8dhubby · 04-22-2011, 09:49 PM

Whammy,

If you have read any of my previous posts, which I assume you have not, you would know that I readily accept that. What I don't know is how to fix it. I am not an Adonis, never have been never will be.

I am working out, trying to be more positive and everything else but I can pretty much guarantee it isn't going to change shxt.

zaliblue · 04-26-2011, 01:25 PM

I have a friend in a similar situation...he only talks about it when he's drinking lol....my hubby and i have a VERY active sex life...and we have been together for 8 years....they have been together for a while, but i dont think thats an excuse. I can't understand why a woman wouldnt want her husband.....maybe im just a horny person lol....even if im not horny, and my hubby wants it, i do it and end up getting into it anyway....but then again my hubby is AMAZING in that department....im not being rude...im just curious...maybe there is something that u are doing that she doesnt like. Sit down with her and have a serious conversation....ask if there is anything that she would like you to change....just an idea....

frustr8dhubby · 04-26-2011, 01:36 PM

zaliblue,

Thanks and I have asked repeatedly both from a sexual and non-sexual point of view. She claims everything is wonderful.

zaliblue · 04-26-2011, 02:23 PM

maybe she just doesnt want to hurt ur feelings? or maybe she is self-conscience? i think maybe there is an underlying problem...u guys have got to be 100% open with each other....