Problem: We have sex less than once a month or every other month.
My husband, age 32, is a great guy: sweet/ affectionate/ and very easy on the eyes/ no medical issues/
I'm a size two, age 28, and fairly attractive. We're both professionals and love our jobs/ no kids/ married three years.
However, we just don't seem to have sex. I use to initiate sex but i find sex with him emotionally upsetting cuz he kinda just wants to get it "done". So i've stopped initiating and now we rarely have sex.
I've tried to bring this up with him but he blows it off. He's very athletic with a strong sex drive but he's not having sex with me. I know he's not cheating. So i can't seem to figure out the disconnect? he make time for all his sports activities, his friends, his work and he spends good quality time with me. But once again not interested in initiating sex. Even on vacation, he's not interested in initiating sex.
We have a great marriage/ good friendship/ love each other but is this possible with a non-existent sex life? Why does a athletic, good looking guy who's not cheating on his wife....not want to initiate sex?