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I have the same question as the OP. It's easy to find male-oriented "raincoat" porn. It's easy to find porn that features only women, whether lesbian sex, masturbation, or POV. One would think there would be a market for "romantic porn", for want of a better term. Sort of like a love scene that you'd see in a mainstream movie, but more explicit. A focus on a caring, loving and sexual couple, rather than just on the guy's penis or a gynecologist's view.
On youporn, suggested in an earlier post, there's a category "romantic" that you could sample. I'm not sure that I consider most of them romantic. I'd like to see the women less submissive, but I understand that's a personal preference not shared by all.
X-art.com has what it calls "beautiful erotica." The couples (or threesomes) in the videos are beautiful--almost too much so. It's closer to what I'd be looking for in couples porn.
abbywinters.com is mostly solo masturbation and lesbian scenes, but it has a few man-woman videos that are pretty well done, IMHO. The thing I like about most of its videos is that the women look like attractive regular women you might see on the street, not silicone-inflated, botox-stiffened porn stars. But be forewarned: many of them do not shave their pubic hair--which is fine by me but YMMV. I actually love the masturbation videos, but I understand that's not what the OP wants. On the other hand, the Australian accents are charming. For more Australians, but perhaps slightly harder-core, see girlsoutwest.com. You probably will want to look at the "boy-girl" category.
Well, damn. I thought it was a pretty interesting topic.
Therefore, I shall continue it!
We don't generally watch a lot of porn around our house, in part due to the fact we have kids.
However...
Back in the day, I used to love the instructional or how-to videos. They're generally geared more to women, and they're milder than Ebony Gangbang 17. Also, during the video you can also take a break to practice what you've learned.
Also, from what I've seen, the more well-produced "parody" films focus more on actual characters and story lines and less the crap you usually see on most sites that specialize in free web clips.
__________________ "I'm not a real doctor, but I play one on TAM." "Dude, stop saying 'no.' If your wife offers you a quickie in the back of a moving van, you say "YES!"
We have iphones and an ipad. So the thing is, if you have an appletv in your bedroom you can stream any video playing on the iphone to the tv. With that said, allmobileporn.com is free, has tens of thousands of videos. All searchable. So whatever you're in the mood for it's likely there. Everything from 3-5 minute clips to 1.5 hour full movies. Old movies (like the Taboo series from the 80s) to celeb stuff (like Paris Hilton's tape) to newer stuff. The hard part is deciding what you want to see.
I know me and wife before kids, have watched. Believe it was called Candida Royalle. Was definetly more towards couples and didn't have the candid close ups of the privates and what is called 'money shot'. I don't know if they still make them though.
__________________ "I'm not a real doctor, but I play one on TAM." "Dude, stop saying 'no.' If your wife offers you a quickie in the back of a moving van, you say "YES!"
Not really porn in the true sense of the word but that Red Shoes Diaries with the X-files dude. I remember seeing that as a teen. Was commented in a woman's perspective. Should please the ladies i think.
There really is no such thing as porn movies for couples. Oh sure for marketing reasons that's what it says on the box. But really, these are porn flicks for women and it is women who buy this stuff.
The slow foreplay and soft focus images, lots of kissing, a simple storyline (as opposed to no storyline sex only porn men like) really a romance novel recorded on video. Men don't particularly like this kind of porn but the porn they like most women hate so men who like porn will put up with the soft focus stuff to please the partner.
I'm sure some guy on here will put up his hand and say "oh no you're wrong I love "couples" porn but really he would be in a small minority as 99% of porn movies are made as hardcore, sex only, anal, cum in her face entertainment for men. I'm talking professional porn not amateur which tends to be in the middle between the two porn genres.
The multi billion dollar porn industry knows exactly what most men like and what most men like as far as porn goes is totally different from what most women like. That's why most porn movies are the way they are. There is little money to be made in producing "couples" porn or porn made for women for that matter which is why the selection is very limited compared to porn produced for men.
There really is no such thing as porn movies for couples. Oh sure for marketing reasons that's what it says on the box. But really, these are porn flicks for women and it is women who buy this stuff.
The slow foreplay and soft focus images, lots of kissing, a simple storyline (as opposed to no storyline sex only porn men like) really a romance novel recorded on video. Men don't particularly like this kind of porn but the porn they like most women hate so men who like porn will put up with the soft focus stuff to please the partner.
I'm sure some guy on here will put up his hand and say "oh no you're wrong I love "couples" porn but really he would be in a small minority as 99% of porn movies are made as hardcore, sex only, anal, cum in her face entertainment for men. I'm talking professional porn not amateur which tends to be in the middle between the two porn genres.
The multi billion dollar porn industry knows exactly what most men like and what most men like as far as porn goes is totally different from what most women like. That's why most porn movies are the way they are. There is little money to be made in producing "couples" porn or porn made for women for that matter which is why the selection is very limited compared to porn produced for men.
my wife does not need a storyline or even want to pay attention to one when she watches porn. what she does want is:
men she finds attractive
some foreplay that involves men licking women all over
foreplay that involves men touching women all over
women who enjoy themselves but are not overzealous
women with real tits
we both watch porn to get off. we want them to get to the good stuff and tend to fast forward through the parts that involve clothes. i have different porn tastes than her. i can be hot and ready if the wind blows right. she sometimes needs a bit more to get her goin. i concede to her porn when we are together because i know if she is all warmed up, it will be a better experience for both of us.
If you're looking for tasteful, but well done hard core "get down to business" porn without any cheesy storylines (you and W or H just want to get it on without the bad acting, cheesy or over the top porn) this is the site W and I use.
xart.com
Good range of M on W, W on W, threesomes, etc with attractive, non- "porn skank" type actors. There's a membership fee, but for the initial $20 or so one month membership, you can download and save a ton of HD short (5 to 15 minute) movies.
There really is no such thing as porn movies for couples. Oh sure for marketing reasons that's what it says on the box. But really, these are porn flicks for women and it is women who buy this stuff.
I don't know. While these kinds of movies we're talking about are obviously marketed to women, there's a lot to be said about movies/scenes that have actors who can actually emote during sex and pretend they're enjoying it and not there to collect a paycheck for their meth habit.
Besides, the worst thing about typical male-oriented porn (outside of the male ideal of men) is that the set-ups and production values are SO-HO-HO bad. In the comparatively little porn I've watched over the years, it seems like the basic set-up is something like, "I'm the sexy teacher, you're a delinquent in detention. Let's get naked and have sex on this military surplus desk." Maybe I'm alone in thinking like this, but I'd much rather much rather watch porn set in a real home, not in front of a couple pieces of drywall with a chalkboard hanging from it.
__________________ "I'm not a real doctor, but I play one on TAM." "Dude, stop saying 'no.' If your wife offers you a quickie in the back of a moving van, you say "YES!"
Last edited by Dr. Rockstar; 07-28-2012 at 12:17 PM.
Why spend money on renting porn? All kinds on the net, just make sure you have a good anti virus and malware/spyware. Now a days you are more likely to catch a virus on Facebook then you are watching porn. At least on the net if you dont like it you just close the window and keep searching for something you like, and it dont cost you a thing. My wife likes to watch a little porn once in awhile, it gets her really turned on when she is not 100% in the mood. We just grab the lap top and head to the bedroom.
good approach and good to have a wife who gets inspired that way...
Neither the professional men's stuff from Porn Valley or the women's porn is real...nobody is really enjoying themselves...hard to do that with two cameras pointed at you, lights and a crew of 10 or 15 people standing around while the scene is shot over and over. They keep stopping every couple of minutes to change camera angles and lighting so it really is just a job for the actors involved.
The guys get off not from the sex with the actress (at least rarely) and there is usually an edit between the last part of the sex and the actual cum shot. This is because shooting the sex nobody is all that turned on and the actor isn't aroused enough for orgasm.That's where the Fluffer comes in. They stop the camera and she works on him while the actress waits patiently and when the guy is ready they start the camera and he does the money shot the cause of which was the Fluffer not the actual actress in the movie.
If you people want real honest to goodness couple sex and orgasms you need watch amateur porn. The camera work is terrible, the people mostly look like people you see in WalMart, but the sex is real. Just Google it.... it is all over the internet these days.
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