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Old 05-03-2011, 05:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hello all!!

I'm wondering if anyone can give recommendations for good porn for couples? Hubby and I enjoy some porn together but the selection now-a-days sucks! Well, at least the ones we are looking at. I'm kind of picky. I don't like any girl on girl stuff, I don't like the ones where you only see the chick in the video (like if she's going down on the guy, you can only see her and his penis, from his point of view) and sometimes the videos where the girls are too loud, turn off my husband.

I'm the porn purchaser in the house, or so I have been promoted to. Can anyone give some good suggestions for couples?

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Hmmmmmm...porn fan that I am, I can't think of any specific titles. The video store I used to go to, however, had a section dedicated to porn geared more towards couples/women.

Which begs the question...are you going to a brick-and-mortar store, or ordering online? If an actual store, the staff should be able to point you in the right direction. If online...hard for me to say. I always used the aforementioned video store (thanks to their store-wide two for one rentals on Tuesdays), til they sold to a more "family friendly" chain, who, in turn, eliminated the adult section of the store. I may have some at home that might fit the bill, though. I'll see what I can find for you.
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Hi Grayson.

We went to Hustler's recently and paid $50 for a film that had all the scenes that I hate. Online, there are so many to choose from but I was hoping that maybe there was a line geared towards couples.

I'd also like a film, kinda like "Sex 101 for Couples" that shows different positions but the only ones I could find were from the 90's and didn't have any previews.

Thanks Grayson, any help would be great.
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Hi Grayson.

We went to Hustler's recently and paid $50 for a film that had all the scenes that I hate. Online, there are so many to choose from but I was hoping that maybe there was a line geared towards couples.

I'd also like a film, kinda like "Sex 101 for Couples" that shows different positions but the only ones I could find were from the 90's and didn't have any previews.

Thanks Grayson, any help would be great.
There are lines geared more towards couples and women. It seems to be a growing market. Unfortunately, I'm still drawing a blank on some of the specific lines. Although a quick check of an adult video rental site allows a search by category. "Couples" is a category there, and I see that, for instance, Playgirl has a line of videos.

One thing I'd suggest is, if you've got someplace local that rents instead of only selling, provided you're comfortable with the place and their rental policies are fair, rent instead of dropping $40-50 on a single DVD. The store I mentioned earlier, was a "regular" video store with an adult section. So, rentals were a standard $3.50 for 2 nights, and their "two-for-one" Tuesday specials applied. It also helped that they divided the sections just like the "regular" section...just, instead of "drama," "action," "comedy," etc, they had sections like "features," "amateur," "couples," "all-girl," etc. Made it MUCH easier to find what you're looking for.

On the other hand, the nearest adult video store doesn't seem to have much in the way of a categorization system for their rentals (not even alphabetized), and their rental policy requires something like a $20 deposit per movie for rental. So, we don't rent from there. We haven't rented anything new since the other place sold, although we have played "porn roulette" buying some of the cheapie, $10 DVD's at the adult video store.

The main reason I suggest rental (with, of course, fair rental policies) is that you're out MUCH less per movie, especially if it ends up being one you don't enjoy. That was the best thing about the two-for-one deal at our old store: if we didn't like a movie rented then, we were out less than 2 bucks for it. If you don't have anyplace like that locally, there are online rental outlets that are similar to Netflix, where - for a flat fee (averaging $10 a month...same as Netflix) - you can search for videos, add them to your queue, and have them delivered to you. Either way, with rentals, I think it allows for a little less risk to sampling to ultimately find a studio or line that does the trick for you.

Sorry I haven't been more specific help. I know, though, that it can really be hit-or-miss if you just make a selection based on the box. My wife & I have gotten our fair share of uninteresting selections that way. But, unfortunately, that's usually the most anyone has to go on.
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I have heard of a site called youporn (like youtube only for porn) where you can watch clips etc and you could buy before you try.

I am not comfortable with it though because I don't like having the "history" on my computer.

If you google the topic you will get allot of suggestions. Some of the big adult stores can be helpful but are required to buy and finding what you like could get expensive. There is a couple names of directors that have what you are looking. I have seen some by andrew blake. it is very artistic, features beautiful people and doesn't have the typical stuff that you both seem to object to. I would be interested to hear a women's perspective though.



PS. Were you always OK with Porn? I personally think many women have a mental block because the deep down (because of the double standard) think they "should not like" this sort of thing or they have only been exposed to porn made for/by/geared to men which let's face it is not good for women or couples.
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Why spend money on renting porn? All kinds on the net, just make sure you have a good anti virus and malware/spyware. Now a days you are more likely to catch a virus on Facebook then you are watching porn. At least on the net if you dont like it you just close the window and keep searching for something you like, and it dont cost you a thing. My wife likes to watch a little porn once in awhile, it gets her really turned on when she is not 100% in the mood. We just grab the lap top and head to the bedroom.
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We rent from "Adult DVD Empire, you get 2 at a time, and just like Netflix, you watch, you return & get 2 more in the mail unlimited for about $17 a month.

I also enjoy what it sounds like YOU enjoy and yes, it isn't all that easy to find the more romantic Man on woman stuff, I enjoy most all PlayGirl dvd's- these are geared for women in mind, they generally do the same acts, but different scenes, scenerios.

They also have a huge selection OF Educational DVDs for couples. When we venture out of these 2 type selections , it is seriously hit or miss -with alot of misses. You can never go by what the Cover of the DVD looks like. Means nothing.

I prefer an R-rated spicey HOT movie over porn any day . MY favorite is "Lie with Me" Amazon.com: Lie With Me: Lauren Lee Smith, Eric Balfour, Polly Shannon, Mayko Nguyen, Michael Facciolo, Kate Lynch, Ron White, Kristin Lehman, Don Francks, Richard Chevolleau, Frank Chiesurin, Nicola Lipman, Theresa Tova, Clément Virgo: Movies & TV

This is my alltime favorite , but Netflix does not have it Amazon.com: Return to Two Moon Junction [VHS]: Melinda Clarke, John Clayton Schafer, Louise Fletcher, Wendy Davis, Yorgo Constantine, Molly Shannon, Montrose Hagins, Bill Hollis, Richard Keats, James T. Callahan, David Dunard, Brian Sanders, Frank By (most movies by writer Zalman King ARE steamy)
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"Lie With Me" being rated R, and my first exposure to Eric Balfour being as Willow and Xander's ill-fated best friend in the pilot episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, I was unprepared to see his package on full display in that one. (I'm certainly no prude when it comes to nudity, male or female, but I still tend to be surprised when mainstream male actors show the full Monty on film.) And no matter how many times I see she's the female lead, I can never mentally connect Lauren Lee Smith from this movie to "The L Word" and "CSI."

That said, their first meeting on the playground is quite hot.
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Was just thinking on another thread that 9&1/2 weeks is still as hot or more-so than most graphic/porn movies.
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Was just thinking on another thread that 9&1/2 weeks is still as hot or more-so than most graphic/porn movies.
Oh yeah, I have "MMMMmmmmmm" memories for this one, that SCENE on the stairway steps. Talk about passion! It was THIS movie that -led to one of only 2 times me & husband did it twice in one day, this is not easy for him at his age. That movie got me SO hot & I made him Hot all over again hours later-just watching it.

I count those as some sweeeeeet memories indeed. ha ha
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Hello all!!

I'm wondering if anyone can give recommendations for good porn for couples? Hubby and I enjoy some porn together but the selection now-a-days sucks! Well, at least the ones we are looking at. I'm kind of picky. I don't like any girl on girl stuff, I don't like the ones where you only see the chick in the video (like if she's going down on the guy, you can only see her and his penis, from his point of view) and sometimes the videos where the girls are too loud, turn off my husband.

I'm the porn purchaser in the house, or so I have been promoted to. Can anyone give some good suggestions for couples?

Thanks.
Why do you want to bring pornography into your bedroom?

I'm not a fan at all.

I'm a big fan of sex, sex as often as possible, but fulfilling sex that makes you feel close and deeply passionate about your partner.

People who want to escalate the bedroom porn and toys and positions usually think that they can spice things up and stay interested in their partner.

But this isn't the best strategy for many couples. Sex this way may be exciting for a little while but the excitement wears off and leaves you with an empty and depressed feeling.

Better that you pursue activities that make you feel more in love and more fulfilled, more affectionate and more crazy about each other, no?
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Dead thread surfaced by a spammer.

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I didn't notice that, sorry. I wouldn't have made the effort had I known that. Well maybe some other couple will find it helpful.
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We rent from "Adult DVD Empire, you get 2 at a time, and just like Netflix, you watch, you return & get 2 more in the mail unlimited for about $17 a month.
Now that...is useful information..

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