Re: Husband only interested when I'm passed out?
This is rape. 100%, no question, RAPE.
You cannot trust a man who will rape you while you are unconscious.
I cannot understand why the other replies were not also shouting the fact that this is rape. Can't all of you recognize rape when you see it?
Your husband raped you. That, I know, is the truth but I have no idea what you should do next. I suggest finding a counceler ASAP.
I suspect that when the baby is born whatever shock you may be in now will begin to wear off & you may be dealing with the aftermath of this assault. Better to get some help now, IMO.
You & your children are in my prayers.