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i'm inclined to the latter - a princess. she was extremely hot as a young woman, and i think she still has the princess attitude of take it or leave it.
what she fails to undertand is that the tables are turned now - she is at the end of her high sexual demand, and i am at the beginning of mine.
So really sex is the symptom of bigger problem - she doesn't care enough to try and meet your needs. The vibrator is the tip off. Posted via Mobile Device
So really sex is the symptom of bigger problem - she doesn't care enough to try and meet your needs. The vibrator is the tip off. Posted via Mobile Device
i am aware that she uses it sometimes, and the last time she used it she seemed a bit ashamed. i asked her to let me see her toys, and as of yet she hasn't shown them to me but i dont push it because i dont want to give her hand that i am jealous of a vibrator - i'm really not jealous as long as my needs are met. i feel that the vibrator probably stopped her from sl**ting it up with lots of strange men
i dont think she has used it for many months now - i pay attention to the available time she has to use it and its not much between her work and actually having alone time without her daughter around
I've been in your boat, probably got a ton less action than you when my wife was pregnant. Yes, I was frustrated and miserable for awhile, but never in a million years would have thought about going out and cheating.
When she is pregnant, your needs come second, period. As a dad you needs will also come second or even third, for a very long time. You said this isn't your first rodeo so I'd expect you to understand that. If she truly loves you she will come around eventually, but pregnancy hormones are unpredictable and maddening. There is no rhyme or reason to it.
I hope for your sake that she can learn to try harder, but if you really love her you should learn to be patient and stop taking it all so personally.
I've been in your boat, probably got a ton less action than you when my wife was pregnant. Yes, I was frustrated and miserable for awhile, but never in a million years would have thought about going out and cheating.
When she is pregnant, your needs come second, period. As a dad you needs will also come second or even third, for a very long time. You said this isn't your first rodeo so I'd expect you to understand that. If she truly loves you she will come around eventually, but pregnancy hormones are unpredictable and maddening. There is no rhyme or reason to it.
I hope for your sake that she can learn to try harder, but if you really love her you should learn to be patient and stop taking it all so personally.
i reject your notion that i come third; an accessory to her life
i am aware that she uses it sometimes, and the last time she used it she seemed a bit ashamed. i asked her to let me see her toys, and as of yet she hasn't shown them to me but i dont push it because i dont want to give her hand that i am jealous of a vibrator - i'm really not jealous as long as my needs are met. i feel that the vibrator probably stopped her from sl**ting it up with lots of strange men
i dont think she has used it for many months now - i pay attention to the available time she has to use it and its not much between her work and actually having alone time without her daughter around
By tip off I mean she knows you're ready - willing and able and she went to the vibrator. As a woman it means she's horny and wants to get off but doesn't want the work or effort of getting you there too. Posted via Mobile Device
Well I'll tell you, I am racked out here on week two of the flu and brochialpneumonia. When my otherwise cold and distant wife put a sammich plate on my chest while I was zonked out asleep on the couch I thought I died and went to guy heaven. It was truly the most tender thing she's done for me all year.
i reject your notion that i come third; an accessory to her life
it doesn't make you an accessory; it just means that the baby is going to have to be fed, burped, put to sleep; and mom will need to be well rested, secure and happy before you can even think of having your needs met.
By tip off I mean she knows you're ready - willing and able and she went to the vibrator. As a woman it means she's horny and wants to get off but doesn't want the work or effort of getting you there too. Posted via Mobile Device
i forgot one thing she said to me once, unitil you brought this up.
the time when i could not get hard and she got frustrated she actually said these words "its too much work"
i got pissed and asked why pleasing the man you love is too much work? she had no response.
it doesn't make you an accessory; it just means that the baby is going to have to be fed, burped, put to sleep; and mom will need to be well rested, secure and happy before you can even think of having your needs met.
It's just a reality of fatherhood.
of course - understood.
but how nice would it be to hear these words "i know that you are neglected because of the baby, but tonight when the lights go out i'm gonna s**ck you dry big man"
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