From 20 to 30 if a man lives right,
It's once every morning and twice every night.
From 30 to 40, if he still lives right,
Every now and again he misses a night,
From 40 to 50, It's just now and then,
From 50 to 60, it's Heaven knows when.
From 60 to 70, it's much declined,
but don't let him fool you, it's still on his mind.
I never heard this before, the twice every night might be a stretch but I bet MANY follow this pattern.
Ssssh: I know exactly where you are coming from. I went from being a once a weeker (feeling totally satisfied) to wanting it 3 times a day when I hit 42. Talk about a BURST in hormones! I felt I stepped into the body of a young Teenage male , my mind was overtaken with fantasies, I was undressing every good looking guy I seen in public, I lost interest in almost anything unless it had a sexual nature to it. For a time I felt I had a sex addiction. I suddenly lost all of my inhibitions from years past & was compelled to turn my husband on, it became my focus in life.
I found this online to describe this change--
Balance the seesaw. When they were first married, the man remembered, he always took the sexual lead, pulling his wife close and whispering his desire to make love. But now, 20 years later, she often makes the first move.
Again, hormonal changes are bringing the couple into closer balance. Men and women both produce testosterone and estrogen, but the proportion of each changes over the years. The male's shifting levels of estrogen and testosterone may make him more willing to follow than to lead, happy for his wife to set the pace. And as a woman's estrogen declines and her testosterone becomes proportionately greater, she may become more assertive.
I remember feeling "Oh my God, I am just getting started and HE is slowing down"! This sinking feeling came over me. For the 1st time in our lives, he struggled to get hard, it freaked me out so bad , I sent him to en Encronologist to get his Testosterone tested (this is very funny looking back), learned he had levels "normal" for a 60 yrs olds- this caused me some worry !
But later realized from much reading that some men are just "lower test" all their lives, I believe he falls into this category-as he has never been the aggressive type, always calm, laid back. Thankfully he didn't need treatment and our sex live is pretty happening for a man of his age. I push his limits and he likes it. He knows it is good for his health as well. I heartily agree with the "Use it or Loose it
" philosophy >> FOXSexpert: Senior Sex -- Use It or Lose It - Health News | Current Health News | Medical News - FOXNews.com
If your husband is NOT pushing you away , this is the biggest blessing you can have- as clearly, right now YOUR SEX DRIVE IS HIGHER and will remain this way till you hit menopause. This can be the happiest time of your life! (Is for me!
If he loves you & desires to please you, LET HIM, blow his socks off, become his seductive temptress ! If he struggles to get hard, get a perscription for Viagra, this is very very common for men his age & most especially if you are having alot of sex.
As men age- their refactory period gets longer & longer, they just do Not LUST as often as these strapping younger males, they generally need MORE direct stimulation. Oral sex can be a life saver to older men to get them jump started.
This sounds like a good book to help :Amazon.com: All Night Long: How to Make Love to a Man Over 50 (9781590770276): Barbara Keesling: Books