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View Poll Results: How many days can you go w/o sex and not feel frustrated?
0-1 7 21.88%
2 5 15.63%
3 5 15.63%
4 3 9.38%
5 1 3.13%
6 1 3.13%
7 4 12.50%
8 0 0%
9 0 0%
10+ 6 18.75%
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Old 10-20-2008, 03:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Men--how often do you need sex?

Someone raised an interesting point on the average number of days that pass before a man starts feeling frustrated if they do not have sex and I'm curious if there is a number that most men fall within. Thanks in advance to those who respond!! This poll is anonymous (just curious to get a tally by number of days)
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I used to be happy with 3 times a week. But now I like it every day if I can get it - which is most of the time
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MarkTwain, What changed you from 3x and happy and wanting it every day?
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I guess every guy is different. I am very happy with 3x a week. More is just icing on the cake. I can go for a long time without it though and the longer I go without it the less I really want it. Physically it helps the prostate to have sex up to every day.

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Old 10-21-2008, 02:57 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I like it everyday, I find my wife irrestable
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My story is linked below on my own forum. Once I started the practice of semen retention, I found I had the apatite of an 18 y/o - maybe even more. I recently went six weeks without ejaculating as an experiment - my wife was partly interested in seeing how far she could push me which was fun. When I finally came, it was an "accident". She was on top, which normally does not do a lot for me, but this was after perhaps 45 minutes of missionary - and when she got on top I was babbling and thrashing around like a mad man. I lost all control and before I knew it... BANG!

Most men I talk to can't understand why anyone would willing give up ejaculating. They simply don't believe me when I tell them the whole of sex is like a low-level orgasm for me. So basically, I think I am probably addicted.

Semen retention, the early days. - The sexuality support group forum

My wife is on there too, she is LaContessa.
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Old 03-04-2009, 02:53 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I think women need sex to !!!
And i think the more you make love / sex the more you want and crave !!!
I love to have sex first thing in the morning and at least 4 times a week more if we can
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Old 03-04-2009, 02:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Every day, but I can go up to 2 days before I really get irritated if I don't have it...so I put 2.

I'd say we average 4-5 times a week, sometimes more.
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i get it once to twice a month and i aint happy at all, i am currently in a slump and i am pizzed
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Its something that I believed to be a addiction but when I am oudoors I can last for weeks! But holy **** the day of is something of a massive eruption that fills the gap.

Keep me occupied and I the desire fades. Offer and I can sustain but when its time it has to be with someone who feels my great need of desire! I never will understand the reason some go on is that other says no! When its give freely its all that and more.
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