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Okay, kasey, you spilled your guts (and no, I don't think it's weird), now I'll spill mine.
I have a nylon/spandex fetish-love seeing women in PH, shiny, tight clothes, leotards, swimsuits, etc., and love for my W to put one of these items on for sex.
And, I, myself, like to wear men's ballet tights-complete with dance belt underneath!
There, I said it.
Actually, there's a story behind it: when I worked for a vacation condo company, I was in charge of the prize giveaways, and I had a little schpeel that I had to recite for the drawings. I got so good at it, I would practically sing it, and people said that I would be good as a radio announcer or a motivational speaker. So, this one lady who worked there and I started joking about me singing it opera-style, and she looked me up and down, I guess she was thinking of Shakespeare, and said that I would look good in white tights.
MAN, WAS I TURNED ON!
Fortunately, my W goes along with it.
I won't share my fetish but this is great! I think reading this might have triggered something in me lol. I'm loving the louboutin references too!
That is tough....I would be initially turned off if my husband said that this was his fantasy. Maybe in time I could work with it, but not sure. I have one fetish I won't tell him about, which is more a curiosity but not something I HAVE to engage in....because I'm not sure he could handle it.
My question about fetishes is this - do you engage in them to get turned on or do you actually have sex while doing them? I've never understood that, especially with stuff like the diaper thing and bondage, etc. Do you have an orgasm or is it just about being in an aroused state? Maybe this is obvious, but I've always wondered about the details!
I guess it would depend on the fettish? as for the op's fettish I could not engage in sex afterwards..my brain just would not even turn on by it. Although I may comply for amusement values and a good chuckle..which is probably why its good I've never encountered said fettish.
Any of my fettishes require sex. I can not even explain the level of dis-satisfaction i would get it if there was no sex involved. it'd completely void the fettish.
But, then you get things like fettishes for having your balls stepped on in stillettos..catheter fettishes..Looners, who actually enjoy balloons (so presumably no sex, unless its with the balloon) there's tons of them.
it depends on the fettish and what you're into, fettishes are personal and very dependent on the individual.
Wait until Halloween and see how it goes over when you have a baby costume. You can ask her to help you with your diaper...
Anyway, at least Halloween gives us half a chance to bring out our fantasies....
Around our town the adults go trick or treating with the kids and to community events, it is frowned upon to not wear costumes that show your alter-ego from your usual presentation.
might be a way to break the ice.. gauge her interest or disgust with the idea... and/or get her to talk about some of her fantasies, and if she has some that might be a little bizarre, it might be a time to try to one up her.... and bring it up then....
or next time you or she is sick and "babying one or the other" comes up... tell her, she can mother you anytime
That is tough....I would be initially turned off if my husband said that this was his fantasy. Maybe in time I could work with it, but not sure. I have one fetish I won't tell him about, which is more a curiosity but not something I HAVE to engage in....because I'm not sure he could handle it.
My question about fetishes is this - do you engage in them to get turned on or do you actually have sex while doing them? I've never understood that, especially with stuff like the diaper thing and bondage, etc. Do you have an orgasm or is it just about being in an aroused state? Maybe this is obvious, but I've always wondered about the details!
Love your question! From what I have learned & experienced (I work in sex industry & have a multi fetish partner) about fetishes is this: at some point in adolescence, a situation, person, place or thing or a combination of such, that leads to sexual arousal; becomes a sexual stimulant in later life.... If the arousal lead to orgasm.. It could be then deemed a fetish.... This I read in a psychological book, can't remember which, sorry.... However, lol.... Through experience both in my working life and more so my private life.... I am not so sure I agree with the orgasm part of this statement... Due to knowing people who remember their first encounter or experience and they being too young to experience ejaculation or orgasm...as we recognize it as adults anyway.. My guy has lots & lots of fetishes, some of which I love, some of which I don't... That's ok, they are his, not mine.... Mostly he is aroused & excited, but it doesn't necessarily have to lead to sex or masturbation... But if if all 'comes' together at the same time..... Awesome! Posted via Mobile Device
I've been married for several months now to my gorgeous bride. I couldn't love her more and I love our life together.
But there is something I've been dying to ask her and haven't worked up the courage. The truth is that I have always had a very strong diaper fetish since I was quite young. I've had the desire to wear them and to be treated like a baby... I don't know why I've had these feelings, but I have and can't deny them.
It's my deepest desire for her to make me her baby in the bedroom. To diaper me, and treat me like an infant.
My perfect weekend would involve her playing the part of my caretaker, putting me in a diaper, having me crawling around on a blanket on the floor, sucking on a pacifier, having her rub baby oil and baby powder on me. She would hold me in her arms and talk to me in sweet baby talk, and feed me baby food, and warm milk from a bottle. And she would bathe me and change me when I needed it and put me down for naps, and let me watch cartoons, and spank me if I was bad.
Anyways... Many of you may be horrified by this thought, but it turns me on like crazy, so please don't hate... I just want advice.
Do you think a woman might be interested in this? It seems like it would be such a power trip for her...
Should I ask her to diaper me? I want to so badly, but I'm afraid she'll think I'm a pathetic freak
It is most certainly not pathetic or freakish... And is indeed more common than you probably think. Talk openly with your wife, she may have a few of her own fetishes & be feeling just as nervous as you about sharing them... Good luck Posted via Mobile Device
I've been married for several months now to my gorgeous bride. I couldn't love her more and I love our life together.
But there is something I've been dying to ask her and haven't worked up the courage. The truth is that I have always had a very strong diaper fetish since I was quite young. I've had the desire to wear them and to be treated like a baby... I don't know why I've had these feelings, but I have and can't deny them.
It's my deepest desire for her to make me her baby in the bedroom. To diaper me, and treat me like an infant.
My perfect weekend would involve her playing the part of my caretaker, putting me in a diaper, having me crawling around on a blanket on the floor, sucking on a pacifier, having her rub baby oil and baby powder on me. She would hold me in her arms and talk to me in sweet baby talk, and feed me baby food, and warm milk from a bottle. And she would bathe me and change me when I needed it and put me down for naps, and let me watch cartoons, and spank me if I was bad.
Anyways... Many of you may be horrified by this thought, but it turns me on like crazy, so please don't hate... I just want advice.
Do you think a woman might be interested in this? It seems like it would be such a power trip for her...
Should I ask her to diaper me? I want to so badly, but I'm afraid she'll think I'm a pathetic freak
Thanks all!
You should have told her of this fantasy beforehand and let her decide whether it's something she's ok with. Some women are ok with it and some are disgusted by it.
All you can do now is be completely honest with her. Then take it from there.
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Re: Crazy fetish? 
might be a way to break the ice.. gauge her interest or disgust with the idea... and/or get her to talk about some of her fantasies, and if she has some that might be a little bizarre, it might be a time to try to one up her.... and bring it up then.... 
