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I've been married for several months now to my gorgeous bride. I couldn't love her more and I love our life together.
But there is something I've been dying to ask her and haven't worked up the courage. The truth is that I have always had a very strong diaper fetish since I was quite young. I've had the desire to wear them and to be treated like a baby... I don't know why I've had these feelings, but I have and can't deny them.
It's my deepest desire for her to make me her baby in the bedroom. To diaper me, and treat me like an infant.
My perfect weekend would involve her playing the part of my caretaker, putting me in a diaper, having me crawling around on a blanket on the floor, sucking on a pacifier, having her rub baby oil and baby powder on me. She would hold me in her arms and talk to me in sweet baby talk, and feed me baby food, and warm milk from a bottle. And she would bathe me and change me when I needed it and put me down for naps, and let me watch cartoons, and spank me if I was bad.
Anyways... Many of you may be horrified by this thought, but it turns me on like crazy, so please don't hate... I just want advice.
Do you think a woman might be interested in this? It seems like it would be such a power trip for her...
Should I ask her to diaper me? I want to so badly, but I'm afraid she'll think I'm a pathetic freak
After I gave birth to our daughter, I couldn't keep my husband from trying to breastfeed also. It absolutely turned him on to be breastfeeding and drinking my milk. In fact, I had to keep him away as it was causing my breasts to gorge.
WR: I admit, I should have told her, but again, I was just too scared of what she might think...
Okeydokey: That's definitely a huge part of my fantasy
MarriedWife: Thanks for your kind words! They give me courage. If I may ask, what would you think if your husband came to you and asked you to do this for him? Would you be repulsed or would you consider it?
After I gave birth to our daughter, I couldn't keep my husband from trying to breastfeed also. It absolutely turned him on to be breastfeeding and drinking my milk. In fact, I had to keep him away as it was causing my breasts to gorge.
This might freak her out, so I suggest when you start to talk about "it" I would generealize as much as you can.
Start by bring up the subject of fetishes in general. Get her take on all the different kinds and observe her and her responses.
I mean get a feel for her responses from the most timid to the hardcore. go through the full ranges of all different fetishes and mix in the diaper one as..let say the middle of the road.
Start with spanking fetishes throw in some cross dressing and finish of with scat.
Her responses will vary of course but the point is getting her responses and getting a feel for her open mindness of each particalur fetesh.
She may be closed off to some of the more timid feteshes and then your screwed, but if she is opened minded....say about mid way and she gets grosed out on cross dressing or s&m then you will have somewhat of a guide line for her tolorances.
For sure she will want to know why you are bring this up so be creative and see how she handles it. I guess its a good way to explore her first and not freak her out by throwing "it" at her in one shot.
After I gave birth to our daughter, I couldn't keep my husband from trying to breastfeed also. It absolutely turned him on to be breastfeeding and drinking my milk. In fact, I had to keep him away as it was causing my breasts to gorge.
Yes, yes, yes!!! I made a point of enjoying my wifes' lactating breasts. Wish I could have kept her lactating ...
One evening we had a night out alone, no babies... we did it doggy-style while I milked her... She has long remembered that as being one of the hottest experiences she's ever had.
No fetishes are wrong unless they involve illegal activity. The key to fetishes and making them come true is being completely open and honest in your relationship. And don't expect your wife to fulfill your fetish right away (and she may not ever be able to). It takes time and little things to lead up to it. But talk to her about it in a non sexual situation. You may learn some fetishes about her you never knew. There are endless possibilities in strong, open, and honest relationships.
WR: I admit, I should have told her, but again, I was just too scared of what she might think...
Okeydokey: That's definitely a huge part of my fantasy
MarriedWife: Thanks for your kind words! They give me courage. If I may ask, what would you think if your husband came to you and asked you to do this for him? Would you be repulsed or would you consider it?
I'm very open - I would consider it - I would not be repulsed.
Wait until Halloween and see how it goes over when you have a baby costume. You can ask her to help you with your diaper...when you get home say, hey my diaper needs to be changed, and raise an eyebrow and ask if there is any chance of baby oil and powder and perhaps warming up a bottle of milk for you and being rocked and sung to? Hard nights partying need some loving after????
Honestly, until this post and me thinking about the twin baby costumes my adult son and his friend dressed up in, the thought never crossed my mind....but now I just don't want to think about it, whatever they did or didn't get in the way of mothering from their lady friends...
I did see the costume went to college with him, it appeared in FB a couple times but I'm no longer on FB, T.G.
Anyway, at least Halloween gives us half a chance to bring out our fantasies. Last year I went as a female Samurai. I should have done the cat-eye makeup. Next year I will be braver. A friend went as a 'hot nun'. She has two little kids and a toddler. Around our town the adults go trick or treating with the kids and to community events, it is frowned upon to not wear costumes that show your alter-ego from your usual presentation.
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