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How many women have had multiple orgasms? If so, how do you have them?
I have had them, but only through masturbating/clitoral stimulation. I have never had any through sexual intercourse.
My husband had a sex-only relationship with a woman a long, long time ago (when he was single and by mutual agreement with the woman) and during intercourse he said she would have 3-4 orgasms. He said before me, this was the best sex he ever had. I guess it really made him feel like a rock star to make her cum so many times in a row.
I consider myself a really sexually adventurous person and a passionate lover, but a part of me wonders if my husband is disappointed that I don't have multiples. I also wonder if this past lover was faking her multiple orgasms since I have read that multiples only happen with continuous clitoral stimulation, not through penetration only.
Bet you didn't expect your first response to come from a man....
Been married 10 yrs and may be going through a divorce but sex has never been an issue in the marriage. We're in our late 30's.
"grind the corn"....position so the man's pelvic bone is rubbing your clit. Forget the porn scene slamming. Grind together...sometimes hard. Her record was 30 in one night....no BS. Good ab workout for her too!!! Avg for her is about 6 or 7 a "session".
Bet you didn't expect your first response to come from a man....
Been married 10 yrs and may be going through a divorce but sex has never been an issue in the marriage. We're in our late 30's.
"grind the corn"....position so the man's pelvic bone is rubbing your clit. Forget the porn scene slamming. Grind together...sometimes hard. Her record was 30 in one night....no BS. Good ab workout for her too!!! Avg for her is about 6 or 7 a "session".
grind the corn position?? Is this the famous doggy style position without
the slamming...and slapping? Do you move your body in unision or in
typical doggy style pattern? Posted via Mobile Device
I have had multiple through masturbating but also through doggy-style with my husband, which I prefer. We both love that position and I angle my ass up and my head way down on a pillow so he goes real deep. He hits my G-spot continually and I can come multiple times. It takes a lot of stamina but always worth It
I'm 48, female, on my second marriage... Didn't have multiple orgasms with exH (well, didn't have this quantity or quality of sex either!), have them almost every nite now (some regular, some squirting)!!! Via his hands stimulating me, oral sex, and different positions of intercourse. Plus, you can stimulate yourself while having intercourse...that counts!
One awesome, never-fails position is me on top facing him, squatting .... usually hanging onto the headboard for leverage...only takes a minute and is mind blowing!
MG.....no, no, no. Missionary (laying on top of her) or with her on top. You don't need to hold eachother, but bodies should be touching (chest to chest) like you're hugging I guess. Key is to grind your pelvic bone directly on her clit....move in unison.
I fake it for most of of relationship. He never knew. I know this because I just recently told him last mnth and he was shocked. Mainly because I lead him to believe it and because the OW use to yell and scream like some porn star (not my style). I'm not a quite lay but not a loud one either. But I never wanted to hurt his feelings and crush his ego so i faked it. After finding out about affair I just didn'care any more. So now that we are both (cross your fingers) actively trying to work on our marriage I finally let him know that he wasn't doing much by the way of orgasm. I mean the sex was good but never and orgasm. Cilt or penetration. It wasn't unitl I told him how well the clitoral vibrator wk that he felt like he had something to prove. And I must tell you It has only been twice and through oral but man I sooooo glad I finally told him. It's much better with a person. And I pass out right out everytime. That part really boost his ego by the way.
I think most women have faked orgasms at some point in their lives. I did for the first year with an old boyfriend. I just didn't have the heart to tell him I was faking it. He was so crushed and angry when I finally told him and I vowed I would never do it again and I never have since. It is unfair to the guy and it doesn't help the woman teach her man how to please her!
But that's my point - I think some women fake their response to appear more sexual or better than the average woman. I do wonder if this was the case with this woman my husband was with. He said she would orgasm at the drop of a hat. I'm not sure I buy that. If it is true, it is VERY rare.
I almost always have multiple orgasms during intercourse when my husband touches me down there the right way just beforehand. If he can tease me just enough and get me sufficiently worked up with his hands and fingers, then i will orgasm both when he touches me and 3-4 times during intercourse irrespective of what position we use. By now he's worked out some elaborate techniques such that he can get me to hit the multiples almost every time.
Having said that, in my experience, face-up doggystyle feels the best followed by cowgirl. Face-down doggystyle doesn't feel as intense for me for some reason, but my husband really likes it and I still orgasm so we do it that way quite often.
MG.....no, no, no. Missionary (laying on top of her) or with her on top. You don't need to hold eachother, but bodies should be touching (chest to chest) like you're hugging I guess. Key is to grind your pelvic bone directly on her clit....move in unison.
Nice..I learn something new everyday..
Is that a clitoral Orgasm that she will get or the G-Spot orgasm?
Nice..I learn something new everyday..
Is that a clitoral Orgasm that she will get or the G-Spot orgasm?
Could be that both spots, G-spot and clitoris can be stimulated. I do not know, but for sure this is clitoral stimulated orgasm waiting to happen. It works that way in my marriage.
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