Re: Why can't I be intimate with my H?
First of all, birth control isn't that hard. If you're super paranoid, double up. Use an IUD, spermicide, and withdrawal. If that's too much risk, read up on some non-vaginal intercourse ideas. The internet is full of them.
Second, you have about 10 years before your child is *****ing that he doesn't have as many toys, or as nice a house as his friends. So that's obviously your issue, not his.
Third, you sound pretty spoiled. You haven't achieved your life's goals by the ripe old age of 22? So you're going to take it out on your husband, since he knocked you up (like you weren't involved)? Get over it.
As Lou Holtz said, “Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.”