Re: Ladies, I need tips on how to get my wife to masterbate
Anytime you find yourself thinking or say "I want you to want to ...." stop. Just stop. It never works out well.
I understand the temptation to think that if she masturbated more, she would be more into sex with you. Might even be true. But wanting to get her to think that way is going to get you into all sorts of trouble. And as several of the ladies here have pointed out, not necessarily true. Masturbation is not sex. Masturbation is about selfishness and efficiency. Sex is about interacting. If she really liked being selfish and efficient, that might not cause her to want more interaction. In fact, the exact opposite might occur. Once she gets hers by herself quickly and easily, she might not want to invest in spending alot of time lying there while you fumble around. And no, she will never tell you that.
When you can see it coming, duck!