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My wife and I are interested in having a threesome with another girl. How do we find someone that would be willing to participate? Not sure we want to deal with websites, but that might be the only way.
I am not looking to be judged here, so please don't post unless you have ideas or experience with a three-way.
Websites and some clubs are the only option I believe. Don't know what kind of a relationship you guys have in marriage now, but seriously, please, do consider possible impacts on your life. And again, and again. Will this one time be enough? What next?
Sex with two women can (and will) be an earth shattering experience, but probably not the one to have in a marriage.
There you go, the judgment and nag you explicitly did not want.
My wife and I used to fantasize about women that we would see while we were out. It started when we went to Vegas while we were still dating. When we would have sex we would each tell stories about the girl that we just saw. We called it a virtual threesome.
She is attracted to women and is open to the idea of taking it to the next level. We have talked about ground rules and expectations. Now we feel like it would be fun to give it a try.
Oh it will be fun, believe me. May I recommend that you first try with a professional helper? The one who will do what is instructed to and is compensated for her hard work. That way you can break the ice, try out your fantasy and be in total control of it. Then you can decide if you wish to proceed further with this and how - or not at all.
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Re: Threesome advice
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Originally Posted by ClipClop
Does this kind of discussion even belong on this site? Is this a hookup site or a pro marriage site? Posted via Mobile Device
People have different definitions of marriage. While this certainly wouldn't be considered in my marriage, others might. And I wouldn't call this an anti-marriage thread, just different from mine and others views. As long as the thread is in line with forum rules the OP is welcome. If he were trying to actively recruit a third from the site, that would not be acceptable.
OK. I'll bite. Male strip joint? I was "recruited" one night many years ago at a strip joint. My 2 friends and I were approached by a couple. Her fantasy came to life that night. It was quite interesting. That was well before the marriage.
I would say if you don't like the idea, then don't respond and ignore the thread. It doesn't need to affect you or your life.
There's been many threads in here and the other forums about things like this. As Amp says, it may not be your definition of a marriage, but there's quite a number of people in here that have tried it without blowing their marriage up (and even, heaven forbid, enjoyed it).
Really, it's no different to me than someone posting question about same-sex issues, or religious/sex issues. Neither of those are my cup of tea, so I just avoid reading the threads or making useless comments on them to judge their lifestyle. I save the useless comments for threads I'm interested in.
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