Mixed feelings about wife and co-worker
Long story - I'll try and keep it short - can explain more if necessary.
Firstly my wife is more than 12 years younger than me and we have both been married before - this time for fifteen years.
A month or so ago she went to a conference with her work. Four days over the weekend - Friday to Monday. When she got back she told me that there had been a mix up with the accommodation and that she had ended up sharing a twin room with a male co-worker from another branch - he about ten years younger than her - but, she said "nothing happened".
I was surprised at my reaction. Sort of both angry but also aroused. We had good sex that night.
Over the next few days I quizzed her further. "What did she wear to sleep?" (we sleep naked at home). Her underwear. "Did she take off her bra?" Yes. "What did he sleep in?" His boxers. "Where did they dress?" Mostly in the bathroom. "Mostly?" And so on.
Each day (and night) my questioning revealed a little more detail and, to be honest, the hornier I got and the better the sex was between us. My wife couldn't fail to notice the effect each extra bit of salicious detail was having on me. "It turns you on to think of me in such an intimate situation with another guy, doesn't it?" I had to admit that it did.
She still insists that "nothing happened" but with each additional bit of detail the definition of nothing is narrowing.
I'm no longer sure that what she is telling me is true or whether she is spicing it up for effect (she swears she would only tell me the truth). Either way it is working. For example, "Did he see your naked breasts?" Yes.
I'm not sure what all this means about me and our marriage. Am I pervert? Is she? The sex between us is great, but surely it cannot last and there is a risk it all ends in tears.
Any advice? Anyone have similar experiences?
Last edited by Malky1954; 07-15-2011 at 10:00 AM.