Re: How do I stop wanting sex all the time?
No it would not be OK for my wife to cheat sexually.
My friends wife cut him off sexually, he is having his SEXUAL needs met elsewhere.
If I cut my wife off sexually and she cheated, yeah I have a part in that and would have to either own it or walk away knowing I contributed to the problem.
If my wife seeks out other EMOTIONAL avenues away from sex, yeah thats fine. She's very emotionally connected to a lot of her friends and family.......I do not provide enough emotion (in whatever form) so she's free to seek it elsewhere.
THIS IS NOT SEX THOUGH.
I understand but remember that if you were to cut out your wife emotionally, she's more susceptible to another man coming in and giving her what she needs in return for sex with her.
The old saying 'men give love to get sex and women give sex to get love' is often very true.
Sex and emotions are very tied together for many folks, especially women.
"I have been bent and broken, but I hope, into a better shape"
Last edited by morituri; 07-20-2011 at 09:55 PM.