07-20-2011, 10:40 PM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: totally disagree
Originally Posted by MEM11363
The post below is completely lame. She has been blatantly ignoring a core need of his for years and years and now he is the one who should walk on eggshells sexually.
This is a wife who has no respect for her husband.
MEM11363--I'm not sure I totally agree with you that this is her fault, but I read some of your good posts and think that I have been overheating the marriage, and for my own sanity dialed back my attempts to force a reconciliation she didn't want yet. So tonight it seems like she's noticed we haven't had sex in a while and asked me if I'm thinking we haven't had much physical contact recently or am trying not to think about it. I answered, honestly, that I'm trying not to think about it, and its sort of working.
But I feel too tense and emotional about the whole relationship to relax and get into sex tonight. If I turn her down when she makes a legit attempt, that doesn't seem like it would be good, but it's going to be hard to get and keep it up with all these unresolved issues floating around in my head.