what are signs of bi curious husband
almost 8 years of a roller coaster marriage. i have my concerns.
first happend when we started dating. he took me to a party after an hour he left me there to get beer w a married man. i was seeing there glances all night and even found him knocking on the bathroom door saying "its me open up". (he didn't know i was listening in the next room, but my guy did). for hours i watched in disbelief. when getting into the car to finally leave, the passenger seat was reclined all the way back. fast forward 2 years on a camping trip, more suspitions.
saturday night we went to a party, being as hott as it was, he went the car to sit in the ac. my friend told me she saw him drive off with a strang guy. when they returned, they were talking by themselves and that 'feeling' crept back in. having issues that i was mad at myself for ignoring it so many years past i walked right up to them, put my arms around my husband and said hello. he didn't make eye contact of even give me a second look or want anything to do w me. (mind you im a beautiful italian woman) for the next hour i watched this guy repeatedly try to make eye contact w my husband and made sure he put himself in the best possible position to have some form of comunication. i told my husband i saw what was going on and he blew up when we left...."IM NOT A FAGGOT" he became so angry and pissed off that i accused him again that he threatned to hurt me and called me all sorts of names. he says he was defending his manhood........help me make sence of this.....is he bi? should i look into this further? should i let it go, i saw what i saw and it made me feel uncomfortable.
oh yeah, in bed we were talking about fantacies, guess what his was??? yep getting another GUY into the mix.