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Old 07-28-2011, 10:20 AM   #16 (permalink)
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A friend of mine was telling me about her dad who has some kind of sleep thing going on as well. She was telling me her mother would tell her, that he would sit up in the bed at night and punch the air, talk in his sleep, scream out, and make really weird noises. He has even hit his wife before in his sleep.

She said the next day her mother will tell her dad what he had done and he had no recollection of it at all. He could actually tell her what he had dreamed, but yet didn't remember punching, or kicking or screaming. Odd he could remember the dreams but not what he was doing in them. he would then tell his wife who pointed all this out to him and what he was doing, she was crazy and making it all up. I'm sure its because he has no recollection of this happening.

My friend said her mother has been trying to get her husband to go to a doctor or specialist about this, but the bad part is he wont go, because he feels that if he doesn't know he is doing it, then he must not be doing it and that his wife is lying. Thats the sad part. So if in fact your wife has some kind of sexual sleep disorder, good luck with trying to convince her to go see someone about it. You may have to do what another poster suggested and set up a video as proof.
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Any updates? She still diddling?
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Old 07-30-2011, 11:16 AM   #18 (permalink)
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I am going to just throw this out there, but it seems to me that this is one of two things. Either the wife in this scenario has a sleep disorder as described by a few people earlier in the thread, or, this is a woman with some serious issues. Maybe it is just the type of person i am, but it seems like step one needs to be confrontation. Get it all out in the open and then see what her reaction is, unless everyone in the picture is on the same page. this is just a disturbing quirk in the relationship.
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So if in fact your wife has some kind of sexual sleep disorder, good luck with trying to convince her to go see someone about it. You may have to do what another poster suggested and set up a video as proof.
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