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"99% of people masturbate- the other 1% are lying about it"
Ya think?? My wife has always said she doesn't because she didn't see the point when she could have the real thing (me) anytime she wanted. We've got a pretty good sex life (no drive issue on her part) and she's right she can have me anytime she wants.
I know for a fact that not all women masterbate because my wife is one of the small percentage that dont..
She says the same thing as a poster above said, she says she doesnt need it if she can have the real thing with me..that, and she thinks its gross..
But Im determined on changing that..the idea of getting her a vibrating dildo lately has sparkled some interest..a recent trip to a sex shop may have somethin to do with that..damn sex shops are so expensive I swear I was walking into a furniture store..
LOOK at the store, get an idea of what you want.... buy online.
If you are thinking vibrator for your wife, I'd suggest starting off with something small and not intimidating. She can work her way up to bigger and better stuff. Make it a gift, along with some flavored lube... if she acts embarassed, offer to do it FOR her. I bet she would use it on her own after that!
I've related this comment before, but my wife swears she doesn't and even got angry when I bought her one of those rabbit vibrators to use when I was out of town for an extended period of time.
Well, I wanted to see if she was lying so I reversed one of the batteries on one of my trips home.
When I came back a couple weeks later? Fresh batteries were in the toy.
And she said she never touched it. Yeah right! Posted via Mobile Device
Basically, for whatever reason she wants to act like she doesn't masturbate but actually does at least several times a week (eventually admitted this).
I think that admission was like how much of an iceberg is floating above the surface--10%. Posted via Mobile Device
Put me in that 99% that do. Female, obviously by my user name. I thoroughly enjoy it by myself or with my husband. And sometimes I use him on me. It's like a play date for our naughty parts!
% of Women that Masturbate?? 
But maybe I'm just jaded? 
