07-29-2011, 12:09 AM
Join Date: Mar 2011
| | Bleh, why can't things just be perfect?
In the last few months me and my wife were really trying a lot of new things in the bedroom. Mostly, taking out all the TV's and not doing anything besides having sex or sleeping in our bedroom.
What I have notices is that 9/10 times this is what happens:
I start by kissing her, fallowed by touching her body. That usually leads to me giving her oral sex, or in a rare case me playing with her both leading to sex. Notice, she does not do anything for me as foreplay ( I can see how sometimes going down on a gorgeous women can be considered foreplay for a guy ). We have sex around 5/6 times a week.
I asked her to go on top, go down on me, something to make it a little different. She told me she was tired and wants me to go on top. So I said ok, how about durring the week we do it normally and weekends we only do it any other way. She did NOT want to agree. Well being married for a while now I can easy find out why she doesn't want to do something.
Besides being tired durring the week, she hates doing it any other way since she knows that the "normal" way she can always cum and have a perfect (10/10) BIG O, while going on top or w/e she knows that it will not be as good, MAYBE a 6/10 .... I told her try a few times in other ways and you will learn to cum from them, but she's like why ?!?! I am happy like this.
What should I do?
PS: I tried to make her cum how she likes then change into something I like but for some reason she has pain after she cums if I don't get out of her soon.