Husband wants sex ALL THE TIME
I've been married for about 3 years. I'm 26, he's 27. Basically, I have the opposite problem of a lot of people on here. My husband wants too much sex. If he could, he would have sex with me multiple times a day, 7 days a week. Don't get me wrong, i'm very attracted to him and the sex is always amazing; he's attentive to my needs and likes and he makes sure that I'm satisfied. And I'm flattered that he finds me so attractive. But his drive is much, much higher than mine. I love sex as much as the next gal but I would like to do it maybe twice a week at most. I try to keep up with him and meet him halfway, but he can't seem to be able to adjust himself to that. Usually, he wants sex when he gets home from work, again before we go to sleep, and sometimes in the mornings before he leaves for work. On some days, he'll want to come home during lunch for a quickie (his office is very close to our place). And when we have sex, it seems as if he has endless stamina. I know some of you may ask "how can that be a bad thing?", but he'll often want to do it again and again and again when I'm wiped out after he's had sex with me two or three times.
When he's craving sex and can't have it, he becomes like a pack-a-day smoker who is trying to quit cold turkey; he's fidgety, nervous, starts sweating, has trouble focusing, etc. if we're out shopping and he gets like that, i can tell that he'll want sex as soon as we get home. sometimes i'll give him a bj in the car just to to tide him over if we're on a long outing. i don't think he's a sex addict, since i associate that with reckless behavior like compulsive cheating or obsession with pornography (is that accurate?). He has never cheated on me, and he only looks at porn when i'm on my period or out of town visiting my family, which i don't begrudge him for. he says he's happy being monogamous, he just wants a lot of sex.
Everything else in our marriage is great. My husband a wonderful man, he is kind, caring, romantic, compassionate, helps out around the house, you name it. he just got promoted at work and seems to be doing well in his job so this hasn't negatively impacted his career. But I worry that when life gets more hectic, we won't be able to do it nearly as often as we do now (which is already not enough for him). Right now we have no kids and I'm only taking a couple of classes part-time, i'm basically a stay at home wife. But we eventually want to have kids and i'd like to start working at some point. that will inevitably affect our sex life, and i'm worried that our relationship might suffer as a result. in the back of my mind, i do fear that when the time comes that we can't have sex as often, he'll cheat on me to have his needs met.
he's been like this since we've been together, with no let-up in sight. i think he might have an abnormally high sex drive and i'm wondering if he should have himself checked. but i also don't want to mess around with his physiology if there's nothing really wrong with him. any advice would be much appreciated.
(sorry for the long post, just wanted to include all my thoughts)