08-11-2011, 11:26 PM
Join Date: Feb 2011
| | Re: Husband wants kink and not sex
There is nothing wrong with you.
He was very deceptive to you, he did not tell you about this before marriage, and that is on him.
If I could only get turned on by something obscure that most men do not find sexually exciting in the least, it would be unfair to keep that information to to myself then reveal it after marriage and refuse to have sex.
most women would not be able to be sexually excited and turned on by a cross dressing man that wants to be dominated. it's not wrong that you are not turned on by this and you shouldn't have to force your self to do that.
I am afraid sex is too important and such a wonderful bonding experience, that i could just not stay in a marriage like that.
I think your best option is to move on. You deserve to be happy.
His fetish has obviously overtaken and he cannot get aroused without it.