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post #31 of 100 (permalink) Old 11-23-2015, 07:42 PM
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lol....too many kids in my house to sleep nude! On the off chance that there are no kids in the house....maybe once a year...maybe...I will indulge my H even though I don't particularly like it.
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i can't sleep naked. I can't wear flannel pjs though either. I tend to stick with a tank top or thin t shirt and panties. We have little kids that wake us up in the night or just crawl right into the bed. I'm kind of glad it's not my preference, completely naked can be awkward when you're the on call parent.

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i can't sleep naked. I can't wear flannel pjs though either. I tend to stick with a tank top or thin t shirt and panties. We have little kids that wake us up in the night or just crawl right into the bed. I'm kind of glad it's not my preference, completely naked can be awkward when you're the on call parent.
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How common is this? My W sleeps nude every night (except for a few days a month when she wears underwear for obvious reasons). She is also always available and encourages sex whenever the mood strikes me. Am I the luckiest husband in the world?
1. Very uncommon
2. Yes
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My exW would basically be in pajamas each night. Booo.

I had a Chinese gf who slept with her thong panties on but no bra. Definitely my preference
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When I sleep naked, I'm usually woken a 5.30am with rubbing and caressing...I never get a decent sleep naked, as he ALWAYS wakes me way too early and I'm tired all day :-( Have had to start wearing pjs to bed so I can sleep!
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When I sleep naked, I'm usually woken a 5.30am with rubbing and caressing...I never get a decent sleep naked, as he ALWAYS wakes me way too early and I'm tired all day :-( Have had to start wearing pjs to bed so I can sleep!
You poor thing. That sounds just terrible...
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When I sleep naked, I'm usually woken a 5.30am with rubbing and caressing...I never get a decent sleep naked, as he ALWAYS wakes me way too early and I'm tired all day :-( Have had to start wearing pjs to bed so I can sleep!
You poor thing. That sounds just terrible...
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Yes you are fortunate to be in a relationship with that freedom and openness in the bedroom. Enjoy and have fun! And thanks for making the rest of us jealous
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I've read your other threads. Luckiest man in the world? Um, no.
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Alternatively nudity need not be considered something that always needs to be hidden behind closed doors.

It's only now that our kids are older at 12 & 15 that we are more reluctant to walk about our home heading to the bathroom or elsewhere sans any clothing, even then we will sometimes streak if we think the coast is clear.

I will also add that if the kids do not wish to see us naked, they know not to come into our bedroom whenever the door is shut or to avert their eyes just in case our door is open and they are walking past.



For me I've always presumed it is very common for many adult men and women to sleep in the nude. In my experience with all of the women I have been in sexual relationships with, exempting occasions where it is very cold or that time of the month, they have almost always slept naked.

That saids my wife, used to mostly sleep with pyjamas on until she started dating me. After we started dating, she has mostly slept naked for more than 19 years since then.

As to the sex bit from my experience, I've always presumed frequent sexual desire and availability was the norm for marriage. So I wouldn't say you are the luckiest, since you are simply one of many.
Right now, im separated, so it's irrelevant. But if my partner had expressed a preference for sleeping nude ( or frequent sex ), i would have tried it.

It really would have necessitated locking the door though. My littlest knows to knock on a closed door but simply doesnt care about personal boundaries at 3 am. Im far more likely to wake up to her spooning me than anyone else 😉. Maybe with older or less tactile children it wouldnt be an issue.

From what i understand sleeping sans bottoms is supposed to have health benefits.
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It really is. Thanks for understanding ?
It difficult on this board to get sympathy for the frustration with too much sex. Many of us are deprived by a partner or have been in the past, and have trouble empathizing with others who have a dissimilar experience. Also, many of us love sex and would welcome it any time. I personally am jealous that sleeping naked is all it takes for you. It wouldnt matter if i became a nudist, i still wouldn't be getting any 😉 Don't let that discourage you, we welcome your opinions. Many of us would like to know how the other side of the equation feels.

That said, i sympathize with not wanting to be woken up early every morning, and i imagine frequency out of your preference is universally frustrating.
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It really is. Thanks for understanding ?
It difficult on this board to get sympathy for the frustration with too much sex. Many of us are deprived by a partner or have been in the past, and have trouble empathizing with others who have a dissimilar experience. Also, many of us love sex and would welcome it any time. I personally am jealous that sleeping naked is all it takes for you. It wouldnt matter if i became a nudist, i still wouldn't be getting any 😉 Don't let that discourage you, we welcome your opinions. Many of us would like to know how the other side of the equation feels.

That said, i sympathize with not wanting to be woken up early every morning, and i imagine frequency out of your preference is universally frustrating.
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Thanks for explaining. I tried to use an emoticon but it came up as a question mark. I tried to use "joking with tongue sticking out", but no worky. I may have a partner who wants sex all the time, but it doesn't mean much when he is destroying our relationship outside the bedroom. Again, thank you for explaining
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the naked sleeping stopped the day my oldest could walk into our room. Sad Sad Day it was.

Youngest is 13......tic toc tic toc

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Thanks for explaining. I tried to use an emoticon but it came up as a question mark. I tried to use "joking with tongue sticking out", but no worky. I may have a partner who wants sex all the time, but it doesn't mean much when he is destroying our relationship outside the bedroom. Again, thank you for explaining
Apologies if I was insensitive. I guess what I was trying to say was, I should be so lucky! Which was not sympathetic to your problem. I can certainly sympathize with the sleep deprivation. That must be frustrating over time. Is it something you discussed with your SO or did you just start wearing pajamas, to fend him off?
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