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post #76 of 100 (permalink) Old 04-10-2017, 07:21 PM
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Oh...you big fool, lucky fool.

This is how she controls you.

She wraps your appendage around her finger.

When you sleep sound, snuggled up tight next to that wondrous thing, she reaches carefully down your throat.

She reaches down your throat and holds your warm beating heart in her hand. She coos in your ear saying:

"You will never leave me, you can never leave me....I hold everything in this world that you hold dear. I hold it all in my small soft hands.

To lose me.....you would lose you.

So powerful is her sensuous message, so powerful is her curly web and warm fold, its scent to "not" die for. You live for this....flesh and its.... odor.

To let go of her, would be to die, in an instant. Uh, huhhhh.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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My father drummed into our heads that good girls don't sleep naked. It just stuck. I only use nightie slip thing with no underwear. That has never stopped sex at all.


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I guess we're all assuming she slept nude for her 3 OMs and gave them as much sex as they wanted too.

So we'd hardly call you lucky when everyone else gets the same dog and pony show as you do.
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Nothing wrong with reviving a great topic, in my opinion!

I have been a naked sleeper since early adulthood. Like many others, I hate the restricted feeling of wearing "jammies" to bed. Plus, I like having immediate access to my gf's body, so when she is in bed with me, she sleeps naked as well.
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I guess we're all assuming she slept nude for her 3 OMs and gave them as much sex as they wanted too.

So we'd hardly call you lucky when everyone else gets the same dog and pony show as you do.
Yes, sure.

NONE here would call him lucky, save me. But only because the Major is mostly [happy?]

Having an [most of the time] loyal wife [only cheating sporadically], while painful to him is GOOD ENOUGH.
According to the Good Major, she is 100% his, now....until she isn't. He is willing to take a chance, take another chance, take yet more "chances". Few men can do this.

He is willing......so good are those smiles, those lips [juicy upper and lower]. Her boobs, he buries his face in them.
She is treating him nice. She owns the man...and he lets her.

He does care.
He does worry.
He does worry that she will leave him for another pecker-head.

His caring is subjugated, subordinated and subdued by his needy and lusty desire to hold her naked body next to his, for as long as "she" permits.

He is obsessed with her. Co-dependent does not cover his sparse body. He is connected at the hip to her. Not connected from the side....Oh, No!
He has fused his pelvis to hers.....front to glorious furry front.

This is the power of a women.....and the lust of men. Lust, unfettered!
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God, help us men!! ...........actually, all is going AS PLANNED by the Wizard of All. Keeps our species alive.

I know this. If there were no women on Earth, men would soon and totally slaughter each other: till none walked the soil, on the third rock from the Sun.
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If I were King of the Earth.....I would........

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Nun-eee-Yo ....bidness.

Even SunCMars has fantasies....fantasies, untold.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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Before my first daughter was at a certain age my wife and I both slept in the buff. I can't sleep in the buff anymore for obvious reasons, but my wife still sleeps with panties only. The only time we both sleep completely in the buff now is when both daughters are away for the night, or we're alone in a motel somewhere. Not very often...
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My wife sleeps in a t-shirt, usually a pair of my boxers, with a kid on either side of her.

I almost salivate after reading some of your stories of your wives sleeping naked/semi-naked. NEVER, EVER take that for granted.
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I have always hated wearing anything to bed but did it for obvious reasons when I lived with my parents, but as soon as we got our own place I started sleeping naked and still do.

My husband is the same, although he normally goes to bed initially with boxers on but after we have sex (which we do almost every night) he doesn't put them back on, so we both end up sleeping naked.

Obviously I would wear panties for my monthly visit (haven't had that for over 7 months!), but aside from that nothing. If we have people staying with us though I do wear panties and one of my husbands large shirts which goes down past my waist, just in case they mistook our bedroom for the bathroom in the middle of the night or something, as I do have a habit of sleeping without the covers over me!

Hygiene wise we both shower before bed but obviously after sex the sheets aren't going to be spotless, so I change them every few days or whenever they don't feel fresh anymore.

It does sometimes get on my nerves because although I love sex and will give it to my husband whenever he wants (vice versa), he can wake me up multiple times during the night with "wandering hands"... Usually the threat of sleeping in the spare room puts him back in his place though!

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Oh boy. I definitely get the '****ty wife award.' I hate sleeping naked: / If I could find a way to be comfortable, I might do it.

My reasons have nothing to do with sex. My biggest problem is how cold I get. (No lie. I'm being 100% honest.) Even under blankets I am freezing. Then I don't sleep. Or I fall asleep and then wake up uncomfortably cold and can't get back to sleep. It's miserable. As you can tell, I have tried.
Usually after sex, if I am super tired, I'll pass right out but wake up from feeling exposed and cold...so I get my pj's back on and then warm up enough so I can relax and try to fall asleep again.
I think my husband would be completely shocked if I got into bed naked, haha! He'd think I was ill or something.
I think he's probably tried to encourage me to before but it just sucks. I honestly can't understand how so many people find it comfortable. It's opposite of that for me. I wish it wasn't though. Sounds so sexy to be naked all night together.

I am really interested in all the guys who feel great joy (or jealously?) in knowing the OP's wife sleeps naked...even though, yes, this thread is an oldie.
I can't believe it is so impactful. I never thought twice about it. Seriously. Is it that much of a good thing?

It does make me question-

How great would it be if she wasn't good- looking in the nude?

Would it still be so amazing?
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Oh boy. I definitely get the '****ty wife award.' I hate sleeping naked: / If I could find a way to be comfortable, I might do it.

My reasons have nothing to do with sex. My biggest problem is how cold I get. (No lie. I'm being 100% honest.) Even under blankets I am freezing. Then I don't sleep. Or I fall asleep and then wake up uncomfortably cold and can't get back to sleep. It's miserable. As you can tell, I have tried.
Usually after sex, if I am super tired, I'll pass right out but wake up from feeling exposed and cold...so I get my pj's back on and then warm up enough so I can relax and try to fall asleep again.
I think my husband would be completely shocked if I got into bed naked, haha! He'd think I was ill or something.
I think he's probably tried to encourage me to before but it just sucks. I honestly can't understand how so many people find it comfortable. It's opposite of that for me. I wish it wasn't though. Sounds so sexy to be naked all night together.

I am really interested in all the guys who feel great joy (or jealously?) in knowing the OP's wife sleeps naked...even though, yes, this thread is an oldie.
I can't believe it is so impactful. I never thought twice about it. Seriously. Is it that much of a good thing?

It does make me question-

How great would it be if she wasn't good- looking in the nude?

Would it still be so amazing?
I guess I just wish my wife was more open and confident about her body. I still think she's smoking hot, and love her naked body. I wish we could sleep naked, and just kind of find each other in the middle of our sleep, and start having sex. Used to happen that way, now sex is something that has to be scheduled. I have my own thread, so I'll stop there.

I don't know how to answer the last question, really. My wife looks pretty good in the nude. But before my wife, I did date a girl for a couple months who was a bit on the larger side. I honestly didn't think she looked bad naked either. She didn't have a perfect body, but she had curves and big boobs, and it was definitely good enough to get me going (back then I was not overweight, and actually had a pretty decent body). On the flip side, I dated a girl who barely weighed 100 pounds, and I liked what I saw there as well. I'm not picky, and I don't have a type, I just think that most women look good naked (to a certain point of morbid obesity, then it's not so good).
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Well your wife and I have plenty in common then. You sound like you could be my husband- being more open and confident about my body would be like winning the lottery. Probably never going to happen...well, unless I am drinking. Then I can forget about it and focus on other things.

Being in bed naked, under the blankets, I'm fine with, but up and out? It's brief and fleeting, haha..I know how your wife feels.

You guys have children right? For me, I lost my confidence at 18 after my first was born. So young. I am only 117 lbs. now but pregnacy f'd up my stomach so I look like total crap. No way to change it, except surgery. I wonder if your wife feels the something similar? Our comfort with being open sexually is *usually* a direct reflection of how comfortable/confident we are with ourselves.

What I mean is, as an example- it is SO HARD to take on a sexy role or to feel attractive and sexy, when we don't feel like we look good.
I am NOT speaking for all women. Some flaunt everything no matter what and are happy to do so. I wish I could be like that.

I am so embarrassed of how I look that it kills my own libido. As in, I turn myself off, so how could I turn my husband on? Makes no sense. I see perfect looking women and wonder in awe about how nice life would be to have that freedom of just 'being' and not worrying. It's that worry that ruins everything.
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My wife sleeps in a t-shirt, usually a pair of my boxers, with a kid on either side of her. I almost salivate after reading some of your stories of your wives sleeping naked/semi-naked. NEVER, EVER take that for granted.
Good old 'attachment parenting' at it's finest. Did she have the kids surgically attached to her hip, too? Ugh.
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So what's the big deal?
Both my wife and I sleep naked every night, except we never touch each other during the night.

How is that even possible?
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I sleep naked. My husband has _learned_ to as well.

My husband, like almost all men, has NPTs, usually just around dawn, and I don't want to wake him up if I'm in the mood by rustling about taking anything off, and nightgowns are uncomfortable to me. Sometimes I like to surprise him by waking him up in the wee hours of morning to a little fun. "Just lie there and take it like a man, dear!"

No kissing though. Morning breath. Ewww.

Our Saturdays start off so much better that way.
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