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Old 01-23-2009, 07:10 AM   #46 (permalink)
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LOL
LMAO.....
Ok i dont want to sound mean or gross but honestly, maybe she has a yeast infection? It's very comman in women and although it is not usually accompanied by an odor it messes up your fluids and lets just leave it at that!!! Was she at all itchy?!!?
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Old 01-24-2009, 12:18 PM   #47 (permalink)
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If I remember reading correctly, round two went well and he attributed round one to an empty stomach. Sounds like that mystery is solved.

As far as a relationship based on sex, I would tread lightly with this idea. What happens if the chemistry dwindles? Then what?
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Old 01-25-2009, 02:49 PM   #48 (permalink)
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well I know I taste Good! I keep my Hubby Happy
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Old 01-27-2009, 09:34 AM   #49 (permalink)
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Ok i dont want to sound mean or gross but honestly, maybe she has a yeast infection? It's very comman in women and although it is not usually accompanied by an odor it messes up your fluids and lets just leave it at that!!! Was she at all itchy?!!?
Maybe its just me, but if I had a yeast infection I wouldn't allow anyone down there ya know? If she does have one, she KNOWS it and that is just disgusting and thoughtless and definately gives you a huge clue to the kind of woman she is.
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Old 01-31-2009, 12:30 PM   #50 (permalink)
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I don't think you need to tell her you're a virgin. What's the point? You can always tell her down the road if you two stick together. If you cum too fast, wait a while and go at it again. I actually had a problem the other way; for some reason when I was with a new woman, sometimes it was hard for me to cum. Strange, but I think it was from being nervous the first time around?

As far as going down on her, everyone is a little different down there, but to me it's okay even if it's a little "gamey" down there: I love the way my wife smells, right after a shower, after a long day, the next morning, whenever. I guess it's a little different for everyone. I would suggest camping out down there, figuring out where she likes it, and staying there until she asks you to stop! That's a wonderful area to loiter in.
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Maybe its just me, but if I had a yeast infection I wouldn't allow anyone down there ya know? If she does have one, she KNOWS it and that is just disgusting and thoughtless and definately gives you a huge clue to the kind of woman she is.


LOL I wouldny let anyone down there either, I'd definately make up SOME excuse?!!?!! But we dont really know this lady or what she's like....And I just found it odd he never got "sick" before and this one time he did.
Well whatever it was hope it's all worked out now!
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LOL I wouldny let anyone down there either, I'd definately make up SOME excuse?!!?!! But we dont really know this lady or what she's like....And I just found it odd he never got "sick" before and this one time he did.
Well whatever it was hope it's all worked out now!
i don't think there were any other times.
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Old 02-04-2009, 08:03 AM   #53 (permalink)
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Oh, Dear, tell her you are a virgin. It is NOTHING to be ashamed or embarrassed about. In fact - it is kind of cute. Tell her about your insecurities, & worries, & it will make for a better experience on both ends.
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Old 02-06-2009, 01:20 PM   #54 (permalink)
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Not to be crude but maybe you should kiss her after you have been down there for a while, and she will get the hint that "it" has a odor! I know thats blunt!!
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She could possibly have some kind of unknown infection going on down there. I'd suggest she go see a doctor. Funk should not be on the menu. Sorry.
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The presence of blood in the uterus can cause this type of odor. Usually a once a month odor that does not go away. tell her to see a GYN. BE careful how you approach this with her, she may not be aware she is any different from other ladies.
been here done this wrong. A historectomy cured my wife.
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Old 07-18-2009, 01:21 PM   #57 (permalink)
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OK, before this thread gets totally out of hand there are some clinical issues that are possible here. She could have BV or Bacterial Vaginosis. This is often the cause of the oder that people joke about. (fish, tuna smell) Believe it or not some women have this and dont realize it. If there are yeast issues you could end up with Thrush which is basically a yeast infection of the mouth/throat though I dont think feeling like you want to vomit during oral is part of that. Either way the big question is when was she last at the GYN for a check up?
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