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Old 09-18-2011, 10:35 AM   #31 (permalink)
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I know as a bloke....cumming is just awsome....but the mess it leaves behind may not be appreciated...

My wife always want to make sure the tissues are handy before having sex...and then add lube....

Do others find the after clean-up frustrating...or do u let is all just dribble...?

Bleh! We use baby wipes to clean up the mess. Sometimes I wear a pad after sex, if my husband shot a big load and I don't want soaking underwear.
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Old 09-18-2011, 11:18 AM   #32 (permalink)
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I know as a bloke....cumming is just awsome....but the mess it leaves behind may not be appreciated...

My wife always want to make sure the tissues are handy before having sex...and then add lube....

Do others find the after clean-up frustrating...or do u let is all just dribble...?
"Sex is only dirty when you do it right." Woody Allan.
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Old 09-21-2011, 04:45 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Sex is messy, but if it is not then you are doing it wrong... That is why showers were invented... ;-)
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Old 09-21-2011, 05:20 PM   #34 (permalink)
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I have a spray from Pure Romance that's supposed to clean up liquid messes from sex, but...it didn't really work like it was advertised to. lol. So, we usually put a towel down.
"Between the Sheets." Know that stuff well. But, it's worked fine for us. (Full disclosure: my wife sells PR on the side, but she's only been doing it for about 6 months. We've been using Between the Sheets for years.)
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Old 06-12-2012, 01:47 PM   #35 (permalink)
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messy is doing it right. if i cum inside W doesn't do anything we stay in bed and cuddle until we fall asleep. when I do oral on her (every time - I love doing it) I just wipe face on sheets or pillowcase. if I cum on her we have a clean small cloth for her face, or we just don't do any cleanup if it's some where else
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I know as a bloke....cumming is just awsome....but the mess it leaves behind may not be appreciated...

My wife always want to make sure the tissues are handy before having sex...and then add lube....

Do others find the after clean-up frustrating...or do u let is all just dribble...?
We keep baby wipes on the nightstand and clean up with those.

Sex is very messy because of all the sweat and other fluids. However, that is part of the fun.
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Zombie thread!
Dammit. And here I was ready with my "sleeping in the wet spot" quip.
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This was one of my biggest problems with sex with my wife. She would blow job but not touch where her mouth was because of the spit. I hated it, I just want to leave all inhibition out of the bedroom.

Sex is messy, for sure. IT should be.
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Damn straight, Ari! And I don't understand when I hear about men who won't kiss their wives after blowjobs, or women who will not go down on their man after intercourse...I just don't get it.
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This thread is so funny. My H and I use old worn out t-shirts(cotton) for cleanup. They are nice and soft by the time they are 'retired' to the sex drawer.

I know its been a good week when I have to do an extra t-shirt load of laundry.
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I know as a bloke....cumming is just awsome....but the mess it leaves behind may not be appreciated...

My wife always want to make sure the tissues are handy before having sex...and then add lube....

Do others find the after clean-up frustrating...or do u let is all just dribble...?
Dribble?

I wallow in it!!
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This thread is so funny. My H and I use old worn out t-shirts(cotton) for cleanup. They are nice and soft by the time they are 'retired' to the sex drawer.

I know its been a good week when I have to do an extra t-shirt load of laundry.
I did three loads of laundry this weekend... Mostly towels and blankets. But I'm sure not complaining!

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I'm not sleeping in the wet spot!

so let go have sex on the porch

our back porch is very private!!!

hell yea good sex is messy. great sex is like a freaking perfect storm!
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Damn straight, Ari! And I don't understand when I hear about men who won't kiss their wives after blowjobs, or women who will not go down on their man after intercourse...I just don't get it.
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