Re: HELP -Husband and ED/diabetes issues
My husband had a lower sex drive then the average guy. It was high only in the beginning. No problems in the marriage, he is a high strung guy. Easily stressed out. He's medication has not changed.
My husband doesn't like to take pills, even pain medication unless he has to due to ( side effects)
I told him to take Prilosec before the viagra but he said it constipated him for days. Viagra makes him feel off the next day with stomach pain. I'm tired of him complaining about side effects! I told him finally to stop complaining. I told him I'll look into another ED pill but I'm sure he won't like it.
He does take the vitamins/ maca that I give him. If he was horney I think he wouldn't care about side effects that much. If he gets a erection and he gets cold the erection goes away.
I do think he feels bad about his ED, I don't dwell on it, but he needs help! He closes up
I would love to look into options, hormones, pellets but knowing my husband hell complain about how bad the side effects are and how sick he is.
When we do have sex, he does please me, I'm the first one to be pleased. He's very proud!
If I bring up the lack of sex, it gets worse. I'll I hear is excuses. Tired, stressed, kids are not sleeping, I don't feel tingly ( on his penis) he tells me when he fells tingly that he can get a erection.
I want not to dwell on our sex life, I get depressed and feel angry that my husband doesn't have the desire for sex. Most men would love to have SEX!