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In today's society and all that's out there online and on TV is can make a guy really insecure. Especially an inexperienced guy. It seems the average penis size is between 5-7 inches long.
At 5.5 inches I always thought I was super small but I guess I am average.
My question is, when does disclosure come in to a gf, partner etc? Obviously if a guy has a 2 inch erect penis, I'm sure a women would be a little upset if she dated a guy and then found out he only had a 2 inch penis and didn't tell her. As long as a guy is over 5 inches, is disclosure not necessary?
To most women, when does discloser come in about a guys body? I.e scars, pimples, tattoos, penis size etc.? When do women care about these things? And what do women want?
In today's society and all that's out there online and on TV is can make a guy really insecure. Especially an inexperienced guy. It seems the average penis size is between 5-7 inches long.
At 5.5 inches I always thought I was super small but I guess I am average.
My question is, when does disclosure come in to a gf, partner etc? Obviously if a guy has a 2 inch erect penis, I'm sure a women would be a little upset if she dated a guy and then found out he only had a 2 inch penis and didn't tell her. As long as a guy is over 5 inches, is disclosure not necessary?
To most women, when does discloser come in about a guys body? I.e scars, pimples, tattoos, penis size etc.? When do women care about these things? And what do women want?
Women would rather have a guy who is a great lover with a 5.5 inch penis than a guy with an 8 incher who isn't good in bed. Trying to warn your date that you think will be a disappointment to her (penis size, pimples, etc.) is not necessary. If you are nice and fun to be around, a normal woman is not going to expect a huge unit and perfect skin in order to like/love you. Trust me on this.
You sound very self-critical. I would work on this because you are probably way more hard and judgemental of yourself than others are of you. Life's too short to not like yourself, darlin'.
Women would rather have a guy who is a great lover with a 5.5 inch penis than a guy with an 8 incher who isn't good in bed. Trying to warn your date that you think will be a disappointment to her (penis size, pimples, etc.) is not necessary. If you are nice and fun to be around, a normal woman is not going to expect a huge unit and perfect skin in order to like/love you. Trust me on this.
You sound very self-critical. I would work on this because you are probably way more hard and judgemental of yourself than others are of you. Life's too short to not like yourself, darlin'.
Don't try to cheat by guessing what they want. Most don't know themselves. Which woman do you seek to please? Is this "dating woman", "engaged woman", "pregnant woman", postpartum woman, married with kids woman, wrong-time-of-the-month woman, depressed woman, menapausal woman? If you're considering a long term relationship, you will meet them all and they all will need something a little different. Very few of their complaints will be about the size of your willie.
In a nutshell, Imagine that you were to remove your clothes, and can guess that her response might be any of these, then maybe you should tell her before the clothes come off:
- Holy mother of god!!!!
- Is that legal?
- How? ... I mean what? ...Is it real?
- You never told me you were in the circus!!
Really, you are being too hard on yourself. Spend the time learning about how to use what you have.
In today's society and all that's out there online and on TV is can make a guy really insecure. Especially an inexperienced guy. It seems the average penis size is between 5-7 inches long.
At 5.5 inches I always thought I was super small but I guess I am average.
My question is, when does disclosure come in to a gf, partner etc? Obviously if a guy has a 2 inch erect penis, I'm sure a women would be a little upset if she dated a guy and then found out he only had a 2 inch penis and didn't tell her. As long as a guy is over 5 inches, is disclosure not necessary?
To most women, when does discloser come in about a guys body? I.e scars, pimples, tattoos, penis size etc.? When do women care about these things? And what do women want?
Personally I can't imagine dating someone and having them disclose their penis size.
Seriously, it boggles my mind. Are we women supposed to disclose our breast size if we've been enhancing with a bra?
Men overestimate how much women care about their penis. Really for most women a mans penis is virtually irrelevant. It's just not something that women think about that much.
if your too big they would want you smaller, if your smallish they want you bigger, if you are good in bed they tire of you , if your bad in bed they want you to medicate to last longer, if you do stuff to help around the house they want you to man up, if you man up your an ***hole
Disclosure to Women? What women want? 
Are we women supposed to disclose our breast size if we've been enhancing with a bra? 
