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DH and I use missionary with him on top, missionary with me on top, us on our sides, me on my stomach with him on top while he fingers me, and sometimes we'll go to the chair.
Lately we started off with me on my stomach and him on top and then move onto me on top. Not very adventurous as of recent. My personal favorite is missionary. I like him on top. For some reason us on our sides doesn't work out very well lol.
In the past we've done missionary with my legs over his shoulders. I miss that. And reverse cowgirl with him laying down at the edge of the bed and me on top. That wore me out.
The feel from behind is amazing for the man. Whenever we switch to doggy...it's usually the LAST position of the evening (if you know what I mean).
But I HATE the fact that I can't see her face and look in her eyes. We've tried the mirror thing...and, that's OK. But, it doesn't compare to seeing straight into her eyes.
I don't like doggy style. H is way, way too big. Sometimes he'll wrap one of his arms around me and finger me, which helps. And I do like the feeling of being taken, but doggy style gives him direct access to my cervix and, even turned on, he's too long to fit all of him inside of me without hurting me. Missionary feels the best when he wants to go deep and pound hard.
Mmmm....now I want sex. lol. Too bad H is at work.
I don't like doggy style. H is way, way too big. Sometimes he'll wrap one of his arms around me and finger me, which helps. And I do like the feeling of being taken, but doggy style gives him direct access to my cervix and, even turned on, he's too long to fit all of him inside of me without hurting me. Missionary feels the best when he wants to go deep and pound hard.
Mmmm....now I want sex. lol. Too bad H is at work.
lol I'm the same way.
I like any position...Hubs loves doggy or any form of that since he likes my butt so much.
I like any position...Hubs loves doggy or any form of that since he likes my butt so much.
There are only a couple positions I don't really care for. I don't really like being on my side. H usually fingers me and that sometimes helps, but I have to be really turned on to be able to move with him in that position. Otherwise I'm just a sack of potatoes. lol. I also don't like being on top but on my back. H goes wild over that position. Me, not so much.
But I love all the other positions we use. My favorite is when he can be deep.
Doggy used to hurt me as well as it bumped my cervix like it was punishing it but...I got used to it and now as he thrusts forward, I move backward.
And am I the only one who isn't all into eye contact during sex? The last time that happened we started talking. Like, an actual conversation. Then we realized how retarded we were and stopped and I went back to rolling my eyes in the back of my head like I do. And I guess he was staring at my boobs, I don't know.
Doggy used to hurt me as well as it bumped my cervix like it was punishing it but...I got used to it and now as he thrusts forward, I move backward.
And am I the only one who isn't all into eye contact during sex? The last time that happened we started talking. Like, an actual conversation. Then we realized how retarded we were and stopped and I went back to rolling my eyes in the back of my head like I do. And I guess he was staring at my boobs, I don't know.
I love having eye contact. H loves to make out, like, furiously make out. I do sometimes, but when his breath isn't the greatest...I tend to prefer to look at him. I like watching his face while we make love. I like seeing how I make him feel.
I love having eye contact. H loves to make out, like, furiously make out. I do sometimes, but when his breath isn't the greatest...I tend to prefer to look at him. I like watching his face while we make love. I like seeing how I make him feel.
Aww, that's sweet. I love to make out too...like crazy, but unfortunately he doesn't which is fine. I notice that if we do lock eyes for a moment, we'll kiss and then go back to whatever we were doing. It's not like we avoid each other's eyes. It just doesn't happen. And when I'm on top I lean away because I sweat and don't wanna drip on him lol. PLUS, we almost always have sex right before bed so it's dark and can't see each other really anyway.
Doesn't it get awkward when you gaze into each other's eyes in the heat of the moment. I find that my eyes don't really even focus and I can't tell you what it is I'm even looking at. Either that or my eyes are closed.
Aww, that's sweet. I love to make out too...like crazy, but unfortunately he doesn't which is fine. I notice that if we do lock eyes for a moment, we'll kiss and then go back to whatever we were doing. It's not like we avoid each other's eyes. It just doesn't happen. And when I'm on top I lean away because I sweat and don't wanna drip on him lol. PLUS, we almost always have sex right before bed so it's dark and can't see each other really anyway.
Doesn't it get awkward when you gaze into each other's eyes in the heat of the moment. I find that my eyes don't really even focus and I can't tell you what it is I'm even looking at. Either that or my eyes are closed.
Hmm...no, we don't have awkwardness. Just a rush of violent passion, to be honest. Which is fabulous, but also sometimes ruins the moment. When we lock eyes we don't have to speak, we don't have to kiss. Sometimes we even stop moving. I don't know what it is about it, but there's such...honesty in his eyes in that moment. Almost like his thoughts are written on paper as he thinks them. I wonder if my eyes are as clear.
Our eye contact has been crazy lately. So have our kisses.
I'm not complaining
I'm so anxious for H to get home. Lately, feelings(good ones! ) I didn't know I had have surfaced. Talking about sex has made me anxious for my man. lol
Ha! Yea, mine too. We're in a weird place at the moment. He assures me it's not about me or us and I believe him, but yea, feelings are surfacing for me and I like it.
I know we'll get through this separation. I just can't wait until that day.
We lock eyes occasionally and it doesn't last. I remember when we were still dating he brought it up. Said he felt a connection since we sometimes look at each other during sex. But then that was when we had sex during the day.
I don't like doggy style. H is way, way too big. Sometimes he'll wrap one of his arms around me and finger me, which helps. And I do like the feeling of being taken, but doggy style gives him direct access to my cervix and, even turned on, he's too long to fit all of him inside of me without hurting me. Missionary feels the best when he wants to go deep and pound hard.
Mmmm....now I want sex. lol. Too bad H is at work.
That's interesting.
I can give her all of me in doggy, but in missionary, she can't take it all. It hurts her.
Her best is sideways doggy, mine is doggy. However, the best visual turn on for me is backwards cowboy. I love to watch her ass go up and down.
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