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Old 09-16-2011, 07:38 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Do you wake up the neighbors or could you get away with it if someone was sleeping in the room with you?

When we were dating I was just all about the heavy breathing but nowadays I find him shushing me. We live in an apartment complex with fairly thin walls and at times I'm just not very quiet but I don't exaggerate like in those porn films. I recently even found myself growling a little bit. He's fairly quiet, every now and then his breathing gets a little loud but I always out do him.

By the way, he shushes me because we almost always have sex at nighttime. When we're done we clean ourselves, then collapse and go to sleep.
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I recently even found myself growling a little bit.



Im not loud, but I tend to growl... In a manly, animalstic way.









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Lol yes. And I don't even realize it till afterward and I'm like...wow...
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I'm not quiet. Where we live I have to be, which sucks. Orgasms for me are so much better if I can let it all out. lol. And H loves my noises. I love his too. He's too quiet for my taste. So sometimes we have noise contests... When we can, that is.
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I hear you. The one time I had an orgasm during sex I started to let it all out and he went "ssshhh! shhhh! girl shhhhh!" I had to dig my face in his neck to stifle the noise. Those things just can't stay quiet.
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Ummm just loud at the end. LOL
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Old 09-16-2011, 08:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
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we have to be quite. our son sleeps in the same room as us, in his own bed... it sucks i hate being quite.
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I am a loud screamer, known for frightening animals outside. My husband loves it.

He doesn't make much noise, save for a growl when he's cumming or getting close.
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I hear you. The one time I had an orgasm during sex I started to let it all out and he went "ssshhh! shhhh! girl shhhhh!" I had to dig my face in his neck to stifle the noise. Those things just can't stay quiet.
lol. I know. Once when I was have an orgasm I got much louder than I thought and DH was like, "Someone is gonna call the cops! Shhh!" LOL.
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My H is practically mute, but I'm not loud either. I think my problem is that even though I'm in a house, our house is only about 10 feet from our neighbors. I have heard them before and I'm paranoid they might here me!
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Not necessarily a screamer, but someone would hear me if they were in the house. It's a small house. The wife....she can get a little louder, and I'm all about seeing how loud I can make it go

maybe i can make her go to 11
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It depends on many things. What time of day, where are the children?, is Mom staying over? lolll So many things to think about.

But if we're alone, oh, it's loud.
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We only upset the people in church once. Because we were parked too close to the front door.
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I like to let 'er rip pretty good! Gotta let her know her effort was appreciated.
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I like to let 'er rip pretty good! Gotta let her know her effort was appreciated.
I wish my husband would be louder than he is. lol. He's getting better. He used to just let out a little moan upon orgasm. Now he's getting the heavy breathing and moaning during sex down...But he could get louder, imo.
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