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Do you wake up the neighbors or could you get away with it if someone was sleeping in the room with you?
When we were dating I was just all about the heavy breathing but nowadays I find him shushing me. We live in an apartment complex with fairly thin walls and at times I'm just not very quiet but I don't exaggerate like in those porn films. I recently even found myself growling a little bit. He's fairly quiet, every now and then his breathing gets a little loud but I always out do him.
By the way, he shushes me because we almost always have sex at nighttime. When we're done we clean ourselves, then collapse and go to sleep.
I'm not quiet. Where we live I have to be, which sucks. Orgasms for me are so much better if I can let it all out. lol. And H loves my noises. I love his too. He's too quiet for my taste. So sometimes we have noise contests... When we can, that is.
I hear you. The one time I had an orgasm during sex I started to let it all out and he went "ssshhh! shhhh! girl shhhhh!" I had to dig my face in his neck to stifle the noise. Those things just can't stay quiet.
I hear you. The one time I had an orgasm during sex I started to let it all out and he went "ssshhh! shhhh! girl shhhhh!" I had to dig my face in his neck to stifle the noise. Those things just can't stay quiet.
lol. I know. Once when I was have an orgasm I got much louder than I thought and DH was like, "Someone is gonna call the cops! Shhh!" LOL.
My H is practically mute, but I'm not loud either. I think my problem is that even though I'm in a house, our house is only about 10 feet from our neighbors. I have heard them before and I'm paranoid they might here me!
Not necessarily a screamer, but someone would hear me if they were in the house. It's a small house. The wife....she can get a little louder, and I'm all about seeing how loud I can make it go
I like to let 'er rip pretty good! Gotta let her know her effort was appreciated.
I wish my husband would be louder than he is. lol. He's getting better. He used to just let out a little moan upon orgasm. Now he's getting the heavy breathing and moaning during sex down...But he could get louder, imo.