Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
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believe it or not, what we normally hear here is that once the ring is on the finger, it is the HUBBY who tends to neglect the wife and not the other way. i guess what u say is true, there are chances that she might be slightly guilty in taking the easy way out sometimes.
for me, mistresses are totally outta question, love her too much to hurt her this way. i even told her the truth that, for reasons that i myself cant explain, i dont even fantasize about any other gals except for her. call me greenhorn in our relationship but i just cant bring myself to pleasure anyone else other than her
Sometimes it is the husband. Sometimes it is the wife. People take marriages for granted, which they shouldn't think like this.
I hate men who cheat , OK!!!!
But you have to man up and let her know that.
Tell her that you are going crazy without sex with her.
Since you have done it so many times and you still haven't solved your problem, maybe she doesn't know how serious it is.
A husband who is insane or a husband who is sane!
What does she want?
A man without enough sex can go crazy! I am a woman with high libido, I know if I don't have enough sex, I will go crazy. So I understand the feeling of lacking sex!!! That's why my husband can have me at anytime he wants!
yeah, sooner or later we will have to sit n talk about this again, but it is not easy and not a favorite topic especially for her. when she sees me, the 1st thing comes to her mind is that i am trying to screw her and it turns her off rite away. but perhaps what she still dont understand is that i think sex is a necesity of 99% of men, the lesser we get it the more we will ask for it.. sadly she has always used the reason how come my ex(s) or my other frens' hubby(s) and bf(s) never have such cravings and stuff... so it is difficult to reason with her sometimes and to avoid further confrontation, i just let it go...
yeah, sooner or later we will have to sit n talk about this again, but it is not easy and not a favorite topic especially for her. when she sees me, the 1st thing comes to her mind is that i am trying to screw her and it turns her off rite away. but perhaps what she still dont understand is that i think sex is a necesity of 99% of men, the lesser we get it the more we will ask for it.. sadly she has always used the reason how come my ex(s) or my other frens' hubby(s) and bf(s) never have such cravings and stuff... so it is difficult to reason with her sometimes as to avoid further confrontation...
There are lots of good posts about sex is important for men. Maybe you can let her read some posts or find books for her read. You are right, pushing her won't help you get any. But she also has to understand your needs and fulfill your needs. How can you help her understand that? It is a big problem. Once there is a good article about what sex means to a man. I will find it for you, it is on the forum.
There are lots of good posts about sex is important for men. Maybe you can let her read some posts or find books for her read. You are right, pushing her won't help you get any. But she also has to understand your needs and fulfill your needs. How can you help her understand that? It is a big problem. Once there is a good article about what sex means to a man. I will find it for you, it is on the forum.
yeah yeah, thanks!
this was the same article that i read 2 days ago, i wanted to see whether it is me who is at fault or there is something wrong with me for having such high sex drive! lol
so now the next thing to do is to try to get her to be interested and open up on such sexual topics
yeah yeah, thanks!
this was the same article that i read 2 days ago, i wanted to see whether it is me who is at fault or there is something wrong with me for having such high sex drive! lol
so now the next thing to do is to try to get her to be interested and open up on such sexual topics
What you get is little. A normal man needs sex two or three times a week.
She should understand the importance of this. People who have low libido can live without sex. But people who have normal libido go crazy without sex, no mention of people with high libido. If she is healthy, she should fulfill your needs.
What you get is little. A normal man needs sex two or three times a week.
She should understand the importance of this. People who have low libido can live without sex. But people who have normal libido go crazy without sex, no mention of people with high libido. If she is healthy, she should fulfill your needs.
Good luck!
well at least i try to keep myself bz to forget about it, going jogging, household chores, our dog, and lately i found this wonderful forum
well at least i try to keep myself bz to forget about it, going jogging, household chores, our dog, and lately i found this wonderful forum
Keeping yourself busy is a good way. But still don't solve the problem!
Read a few news articles today. Felt very sad. Keeping mistresses is very common for rich men in China now. Chinese men don't have good morals to control their selfish desire. It is causing a lot of sad feeling for married women in China. I always feel very bothered reading posts about cheating. On TAM, I don't go to the infidelity section. I will just get very bothered and it can ruin my day, even though I tell myself not to be bothered by small things. I just feel sad about all the unfair stuff going on in the world.
I really want women to make their husbands happy, so they don't need to go elsewhere to look for satisfaction. But men tend to become bored with one woman, and a lot of Chinese have no morals. Fxxx them.
Seeing you men trying very hard to stay in a relationship even though your spouses are not understanding of your needs, makes me feel bad for you men and make me feel like opening the women's heads and let them know how important it is to satisfy their men's needs!
But I am not a magician. sigh........................................
tell u a story, my great grandad came from mainland china, he was one of those army officers who was assigned to malaysia. at that time, he already had 2 wives there. when he came down, he was one of those tycoons, owning hotels, petrol stations n such. but he married another 5 wives. so officially, he has 7 wives, but when he passed away, he was left with only 2 cents in the pocket, not even enuf for a proper burial. n if i remembered well, grandma told me none of the wives even came for the funeral...
so which u think is better? having 7 mistresses or having 7 wives? LOL
tell u a story, my great grandad came from mainland china, he was one of those army officers who was assigned to malaysia. at that time, he already had 2 wives there. when he came down, he was one of those tycoons, owning hotels, petrol stations n such. but he married another 5 wives. so officially, he has 7 wives, but when he passed away, he was left with only 2 cents in the pocket, not even enuf for a proper burial. n if i remembered well, grandma told me none of the wives even came for the funeral...
so which u think is better? having 7 mistresses or having 7 wives? LOL
Men are funny, right? They think that those women love them, but actually, they only love his money. Without money, those women run away from them like they are plague. I have read quite a few news articles in Taiwan. Some men squander money on high class prostitutes, They give them a lot of money every month. If their situation is fine, the women do whatever they can to please the men. But some men went bankrupt and had no money to give anymore. Right away, the women started giving them dirty looks and trying to avoid them. One time a man killed the woman who he used to keep. A lot of things like this happen in China and Taiwan. But men will never learn lessons from other people's experience, they will only learn their lessons when it is happening to them. LIFE.....................
I view men faithful sacred. I love my husband so much and cherish him so much because I know he is only mine. I am striving hard to be a wonderful wife for him so he doesn't feel he misses anything.
hey, where r u based? if u ever come to malaysia, we should hook up, n maybe u can try to explain this to wifey, coz outta 365 days, she has no mood for 350 days!!!
well, i did get her an LV purse on my last visit to paris. i was there for our company's exhibition 2 years back, was there for 1 week. it was during that moment when i got back that we made love for 3 times on that day! it was really the moment of my life! sadly that was the 1st n the last time of pure 1-day intimacy and it was nearly back to square 1 soon after...
i wonder if i shud go away again for some time just to re-live that moment...
Poor husband. Yes you should. Did you ever hear this," How can I miss you if you never go away?"
By the way, pay attention to the week of her Ovulation,1 week after her AF. She should be in heat. Lol. So you can wait for that week and make up all the times you missed for the entire month. She won't mind. Posted via Mobile Device
Poor husband. Yes you should. Did you ever hear this," How can I miss you if you never go away?"
By the way, pay attention to the week of her Ovulation,1 week after her AF. She should be in heat. Lol. So you can wait for that week and make up all the times you missed for the entire month. She won't mind. Posted via Mobile Device
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the thing is i was supposed to be in Paris again next week for a duration of 10 days but she insisted on me not going... 2 months back i was supposed to be in west africa for 2 weeks, she also held me back... so how? still no sex!!!!!! LOL
in fact, i did try to approach her during that time when she was supposed to be in heat! but in the end it was my arse that got burned instead! LOL
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the thing is i was supposed to be in Paris again next week for a duration of 10 days but she insisted on me not going... 2 months back i was supposed to be in west africa for 2 weeks, she also held me back... so how? still no sex!!!!!! LOL
in fact, i did try to approach her during that time when she was supposed to be in heat! but in the end it was my arse that got burned instead! LOL
Don't understand her. She doesn't want you to be away from her, but she doesn't know that you are dying for sex.
in fact i asked her the other day y she was holding me back from the travelling, she said she'll feel very lonely when i am not around... when ur partner says something like that, how can u go on n break her heart by continuing with the travelling? lol
in fact i asked her the other day y she was holding me back from the travelling, she said she'll feel very lonely when i am not around... When ur partner says something like that, how can u go on n break her heart by continuing with the travelling? Lol
you love her!
Good!
Hope she appreciates it!
I have never been away from my husband!!!
I love him! It is true i will be lonely if he is away!
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