My husband and I have been married for over 8 years. We really have a wonderful marriage. He is absolutely my best friend and we really enjoy being together. We have a 6 yo daughter and just a really good life together all around.
So what's the problem??? He is several years older than me, will be turning 50 this year. Which doesn't really bother me, but the sexual side of things really gets to me. I am in my early 30s and have a very strong urge for regular sexual contact. I would like it everday. But for several years now, I have to get by on maybe 3-4 times per month.
I try not to take this personally, as he has had some health problems and been on medications that make this difficult for him. But it doesn't help my frustration! We have discussed this a few times, and he insists he is attracted to me and sees no issues. But he gets it whenever he wants it because I feel I am always waiting for him to be wanting me. This constant frustration is maddening! I do not want to ruin an otherwise wonderful marriage over sex, but am so tired of feeling neglected in that area. I watch porn sometimes, and I fantasize about having a purley sexual affair at times, and have actually considered it, but really do not want to ruin this.
I feel doomed to a life of wanting what I can't have. our sexual needs are so different, and don't seem to be getting any better. All of you men dealing with this, I totally understand. Any other women going through this also? Uggghhhhh......
So what's the problem??? He is several years older than me, will be turning 50 this year. Which doesn't really bother me, but the sexual side of things really gets to me. I am in my early 30s and have a very strong urge for regular sexual contact. I would like it everday. But for several years now, I have to get by on maybe 3-4 times per month.
I try not to take this personally, as he has had some health problems and been on medications that make this difficult for him. But it doesn't help my frustration! We have discussed this a few times, and he insists he is attracted to me and sees no issues. But he gets it whenever he wants it because I feel I am always waiting for him to be wanting me. This constant frustration is maddening! I do not want to ruin an otherwise wonderful marriage over sex, but am so tired of feeling neglected in that area. I watch porn sometimes, and I fantasize about having a purley sexual affair at times, and have actually considered it, but really do not want to ruin this.
I feel doomed to a life of wanting what I can't have. our sexual needs are so different, and don't seem to be getting any better. All of you men dealing with this, I totally understand. Any other women going through this also? Uggghhhhh......