10-04-2011, 05:58 PM
Join Date: Oct 2011
| | Wanting intimacy but holding back
For those of you who have suspected yr partner of cheating, did you still continue to have sex with him/her whilst trying to gather evidence? I am having a hard time being intimate in these circumstances and have stopped, even though the urge is still there.
It just feels wrong plus I have concerns about STDs if it turns out he has been cheating.
Conversely if it turns out I am wrong and he has been faithful then I am not be doing our relationship any good by not being intimate.
I would very much appreciate any insight you can offer on this - haven't seen it talked about elsewhere.