My husband is just NOT the aggressive type, but he likes when I am - This I have to settle for. But a girl can still have some fantasies.
I shouldn't say this on here cause it may offend some, but of well, it was kinda funny, and it happened-probably one of the few times my husband has Pinned me down that I can remember.
.....We were on a vacation together, and I was just in one of those moods, thinking about all we missed our early years-being so boring in bed... vanilla, lights out, 2 positions, we didn't even moan! ..... I was getting on him about all the things he could have tried, did, spiced it up (after all he was feeling it more than me!) , even this wrestling me to the ground thing (he has never done that) ...and he gets on top of me and pins my hands to the bed...and says to me..."IF you call me boring ONE MORE TIME, I am going to turn into a Christian". I just said ..."Oh my No...NO..... I sure as Heck don't want that!!! ". Started
and that was the end of that fight.
Now please....don't be offended by these things, it was what screwed US
up (more so me) & I inwardly felt so much was taboo. My husband was just content with vanilla- this didn't help any either -for bringing me out of that. I realize the majority of christains have an exciting passionate -even wrestling /aggressive sex life.
One of the more humorous moments we ever had was ME pinning him to the bed, me glaring at him how I wanted him to be more aggressive with me -- and he says.."You're not going to like this....but you are turning me on"... and lo & behold, how true it was! That was the end of that fight!
Always fight naked, no better way !
I don't see any Father - daughter dynamic in wanting such things, would have never entered my mind.