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Honestly. I've been married since July and have gotten it just once. Last year he admitted that he liked it but I've received a total of 4-5 times from him since we been together. Maybe he lied and doesn't like it? I figured if he thinks there's something wrong with me down there then he'd say so I'm assuming he's not into it. I'll ask him.
Re: There any men in here who DON'T like giving oral?
Ok, my story, I know my husband loves this -cause even as shy as he was back in the day, it was one thing he kept TRYING to do -even though He KNEW I was uncomfortable with it (oral sex hang ups), I even used to push his head away - and he resisted, keeping at it, it is one of the more aggressive MOVES on his part -looking back. Nice memories....
Shoot ahead about 2 yrs ago now....he seemed a little less into this and well, although I can't seem to orgasm from it, I still wanted it (great enjoyable forplay) , so I kinda made an issue out of this...after some honest heart to heart talking, with me suggestsing /asking ....Do I not taste good, come on, be honest, I can handle it !! I wanted to know. Is he loosing desire or something else ? What the hell is the deal !
He admitted he was not about to tell me I didn't taste good - which was the culprit ..... I was taking 1,000 mg of Fish oil a day at that time , I googled this- it could cause a woman to not taste so good down there -so I stopped that and ...well, that was all that was needed .......back to happily eating at the "y".
Re: There any men in here who DON'T like giving oral?
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Originally Posted by SepticChange
Honestly. I've been married since July and have gotten it just once. Last year he admitted that he liked it but I've received a total of 4-5 times from him since we been together. Maybe he lied and doesn't like it? I figured if he thinks there's something wrong with me down there then he'd say so I'm assuming he's not into it. I'll ask him.
But anyway, any gentlemen not into this?
So I was watching The Sopranos and Tony's wife brought this up. Apparently, and I did not know this, some cultures, think of this as emasculating.
Re: There any men in here who DON'T like giving oral?
I wouldn't want to go down on a girl that doesn't shave. A mouthful of hair isn't a turn on. Also, it should be clean and washed before I go down there because there is bacteria in the vagina and if it's dirty, it's not healthy and it smells. Also, it can get tiresome to leave your mouth open a long time while you're waiting for her to get there and it irritates the jaw. Not to mention, your tongue can start to get tired trying to move it fast. So all in all, no I don't really like it.
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Originally Posted by SimplyAmorous
Ok, my story, I know my husband loves this -cause even as shy as he was back in the day, it was one thing he kept TRYING to do -even though He KNEW I was uncomfortable with it (oral sex hang ups), I even used to push his head away - and he resisted, keeping at it, it is one of the more aggressive MOVES on his part -looking back. Nice memories....
Shoot ahead about 2 yrs ago now....he seemed a little less into this and well, although I can't seem to orgasm from it, I still wanted it (great enjoyable forplay) , so I kinda made an issue out of this...after some honest heart to heart talking, with me suggestsing /asking ....Do I not taste good, come on, be honest, I can handle it !! I wanted to know. Is he loosing desire or something else ? What the hell is the deal !
He admitted he was not about to tell me I didn't taste good - which was the culprit ..... I was taking 1,000 mg of Fish oil a day at that time , I googled this- it could cause a woman to not taste so good down there -so I stopped that and ...well, that was all that was needed .......back to happily eating at the "y".
Thanks. Maybe it's something in my diet that is turning him off. He's a brutally honest guy and just 2 days ago he made a joke in response to me going to take a shower he said "If you stank, I'd tell you." Which I believe! But I dunno...only way to find out is to be upfront about it.
Re: There any men in here who DON'T like giving oral?
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Originally Posted by Dax
Also, it can get tiresome to leave your mouth open a long time while you're waiting for her to get there and it irritates the jaw.
That could be a reason why he's stopped. The few times he went down on me I didn't orgasm from it no matter how long he was going at it so his ego probably got hurt and he stopped. Even after I told him no matter what I still enjoyed it.
Re: There any men in here who DON'T like giving oral?
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Originally Posted by SepticChange
That could be a reason why he's stopped. The few times he went down on me I didn't orgasm from it no matter how long he was going at it so his ego probably got hurt and he stopped. Even after I told him no matter what I still enjoyed it.
Yes that's it. This one girl I dated before couldn't really orgasm either no matter how long I was down there or how hard I tried. Other girls easily could. It definitely was an ego destroyer. Why spend all that effort to please her when it didn't get the job done? I didn't even try anymore, and ended up breaking up with her but for other reasons. However, sexual incompatibility was one of them.
My advice would be to fake it if you like it that much so he feels better.
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