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Morning poke in the back?

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I'm wondering how the ladies feel about getting woken up in the morning by the usual poke in the back from morning erections of their bed partner. I've been married over 27 years and have gotten a wide variety of responses from my wife but we've never really discussed this phenomenon. She's not really a morning person and I go to work fairly early (usually out of bed by 6am).

Some mornings she ignores me. Some mornings she pushes me away. Some mornings she will adjust her body, spread her legs slightly and guide me right inside for some glorious spooning. This morning she did something she has never done before. She took me between her legs in the spooning position and proceeded to rub the head of my **** against her clit until she came. She then guided me inside where I barely lasted a few thrusts before I exploded. Hot!!

Ladies, how do you deal with the usual morning wood?
 
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She took me between her legs in the spooning position and proceeded to rub the head of my **** against her clit until she came. She then guided me inside where I barely lasted a few thrusts before I exploded. Hot!!

Ladies, how do you deal with the usual morning wood?
Just like this.... morning wood is a wonderful bonus! What a happy way to wake up and start the day.
 
#6 ·
A lot of times when I wake up with morning wood it's because I have to pee really bad...:grin2: It's still there when I finish, though...:wink2:

I can still give a go, but the problem is..., it doesn't seem to ever happen when we are not pressed for time. Quickies are not something we do very often anymore.:frown2: Those stray woodies that happen are often just having to go away on their own. We still have two teenagers at home.
 
#7 ·
Mitchell,

All I can tell you is that an experience like that would be like me winning the lottery for 100 million.

I've never kept statistics but I would expect that over the course of our marriage only 1 in 30 times I've been aroused by my W has anything happened.

Tamat
 
#9 ·
Morning sex is fairly common in our house as well as nooners. As the kids are getting older, evening and night time lovin' seems to be more difficult to navigate as kids demand more attention for whatever reason (help with homework, want to talk, evening family time, etc.). In fact, I'll be poking my wife in the back tomorrow morning to get the day started.
 
#10 ·
It depends on whether we are both awake enough, but I'm always aroused when I know my H has morning wood.

He often says it has a brain of its own and doesn't care if the rest of him is dead tired at that moment. I've managed more than once to gently wake the rest of him up.
 
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I hate morning sex with a passion. It feels mechanical and machine like there is no kissing, no build up, its stick in, stroke, cum, done, (in theory it is I can never cum quick so I just wait for her and then stop)...HATE IT HATE IT.

Ive voiced it more than once Id pick no sex before Id pick morning sex.

Morning sex is like eating fast food its food, but so lacking.

I prefer 5 course sex, baths, candles, music, build up, toys, long tired sex, sweat. At the ripe old age of 42 if I dont get that Ill just pass.
 
#14 ·
I beg for morning sex! I usually get rejected "I have to get to x meeting". Best is when he comes back and throws off the work clothes, makes me happy and then redresses for the day with my scent on him.

Husband #1 - I took morning sex attempts as an insult. He didn't want me, he just woke up with that...and his breath was bad and my breath was bad...ugh, I am glad we aren't married anymore but I am sorry for the damage I did to both of our sex lives.
 
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I used to hate it. Im not a morning person at all. I hate waking up. But i have found that if i let him convince me for long enough i get turned on, and when i give in i actually enjoy it. Its so peaceful in the morning. And i feel good starting his day off right ;)
I have to say something like "but im so tired" (leave the possibility of being convinced in the air) if he knows i can be convinced, he will try for as long as it takes me to wake up. Which is actually just foreplay for both of us. That helps it not be so mechanical and boring.

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Haha o my god what a little tease. Id be like ok fine if you dont follow through then you dont get to touch :D jk jk
My husband likes to be touched even if it doesnt lead to sex right then. But its not because i dont want it, its because it is usually not possible at the moment (kids are awake or something) but just as soon as it is possible we jump on it. Which is usually after the kids go to bed that night :/

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