I am having great sex with my wife of 25 years. However, I have always wanted more sexiness from my wife. She has ALWAYS, from the day I met her thought she was not sexy in the least. All her sisters (4 of them) are all jealous of her and tell her she "doesn't have a sexy bone in her body." (think Cinderella)
She is a beautiful woman, but believes she is not sexy. I always give her compliments especially when we have sex.
No matter what, she has much difficulty believing it.
Is there anything I can do to get her to believe in herself?
Sexiness (IMO) comes from the soul. She definitely has the body to pull it off, but is all thumbs, in her mind.
For example. She will put on lingerie and then walk toward the bed cowering as if she is the ugliest woman on earth and should never wear such things.
She is a beautiful woman, but believes she is not sexy. I always give her compliments especially when we have sex.
No matter what, she has much difficulty believing it.
Is there anything I can do to get her to believe in herself?
Sexiness (IMO) comes from the soul. She definitely has the body to pull it off, but is all thumbs, in her mind.
For example. She will put on lingerie and then walk toward the bed cowering as if she is the ugliest woman on earth and should never wear such things.