There is likely no such thing as LD!
#1 Don't get angry at her when we do not have sex!
#2 Give her a break after we have had sex!
do what you want.
why would you want to spend your life constantly assessing her mood and if it's OK to do what you really want? if she doesn't want to, she will surely reject you.
this just appears to be a backdoor way of avoiding rejection
#3 Don't ask for sex during her period!
so now you need to monitor her mood and her cycle too.
is she paying any attention to your mood and what your desires are on any particular day, or is it all on you to figure her out?
pretty obvious who works for who here
#4 For the love of god, just let sex be natural!
agree, but this is not consistent with the other things on your list.
if it was natural you would not be constantly monitoring and scheming, you would just be going for it when you wanted to
#5 If I really need her and she is not in the mood, then just enjoy it!
agree. forget about whether she enjoys it. your outsized focus on this is just another example of the lopsided power dynamic
#6 If I am not going to be able to get in the mood, but she is, then she should just enjoy it!
how does this even work? you're having sex and you're not in the mood?
maybe you're too focused on her and if you focused on what you want to do more you would be more in the mood.
Those are the six things that I have discovered that make a dramatic difference for my wife to be able to enjoy intimacy in our marriage. It took me a very long time to recognize these things and understand the dynamics associated with them.
I think it's cool you are having some success with this but it seems like a very one sided dynamic overall
I can't imagine that you could feel satisfied by this long term.