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Old 11-03-2011, 09:15 PM   #16 (permalink)
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tell him

1. you love is ehem
2. you want his ehem
3. you think dirty about him all the time
4. you get wet when you think about his blankety blank
5. that your friends are jealous she has such a hit hub

words are VERY powerful
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Old 11-03-2011, 10:09 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I did this last night - very simple, perhaps too simple and obvious but he almost didn't last. We had foreplay happening, I was kissing and licking his chest and abs, just a short time, teasing. We progressed to masturbation. It drives me nuts when he strokes himself. Then I positioned my mouth to barely touch the tip as he stroked. I was facing him so he had the visual. I wasn't naked, it was cleavage viewing for him beneath my garment. He pulled my hair out of the way to keep the view. Im used to giving him oral but this has my mouth barely touching him and I had to stop as the tease was driving him wild. Then we had hot sex.
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Old 11-03-2011, 10:28 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I am a basic drop and roll kinda gal and up for ANYTHING! But, Idont mind tryin new things and keepin it spicy thanks and keep up the advice!
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Old 11-04-2011, 05:46 AM   #19 (permalink)
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let him catch you twiddling while watching some girl on girl but dont make it look like you intended for him to.

Be vocal in bed it makes us think we are doing a good job. Kinda like the way your dog gets excited when you praise him for catching the ball.

Yep that's why they say men are dogs. Our primal instincts are the same.

Talk dirty, really dirty in bed it cranks most of us up.

when you give him a bj put slight pressure on his taint.
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Old 11-04-2011, 06:31 AM   #20 (permalink)
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when you give him a bj put slight pressure on his taint.
Or just slip your finger in his ass!
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Old 11-04-2011, 07:39 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Or just slip your finger in his ass!
This. omg. instant win. cheat code. the game genie super move. Finding the warp whistle. 30 lives in contra. all related.
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Old 11-04-2011, 11:27 AM   #22 (permalink)
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#4 a fun one I've done with my wife. Give him oral, but tell him that you're a voice activated *sucker. Like if he tells you what to do or how good it feels, you'll keep doing it. But if he isn't saying anything, slow down until you stop. I've actually done this with new women before to learn what they like orally, and since it's part of a 'game' they're more willing to tell me what to do -- and I can learn what they like.
This is one of the best ideas I've ever heard!!!!
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Mine liked it when I staged a porn scene for him. Bought a corset and garter stockings, did my hair and make up all up, shaved all the right places, filled the room with candles and turned off all the lights, and positioned myself so that as he walked in the door of the bedroom he was confronted with my legs spread at him and my favorite dildo going in and out of me.
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Old 11-04-2011, 03:48 PM   #24 (permalink)
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what everyone else says - enthusiasm. oral. **** worship. ego stroking. eye contact. responsiveness. enthusiam, enthusiasm, enthusiasm. Let him know how much you like it, how big you think he is, how good it feels, what you want him to do. If we're going down on you, make noise and let us know you're digging it. We don't mind so much if you fake enthusiasm just a little - just make it good!
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Also, any tricks to helping hit the gspot I am always satisfied but not through penetration. And positions or ideas would be great!!!
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For me, my gspot is found when I'm on my back, but my butt is propped up and he enters that way. Holy crap. Wow.
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For me it's the teasing, all men are different
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Old 11-04-2011, 06:52 PM   #27 (permalink)
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My H likes it when i send him the im up against the door thenhoney I'm thniking about you texts while he is at work. Gets him all worked up and ready for when he gets home. Sometimes I won't text him I'll just surprise him and jump him when he gets home. A few times i have waited for him to walk in push him against the door undo his pants and put his **** so far in my mouth I gag a lil then I just get to work.

He also loves it when I lay on my back across the bed (width not length) I hang my head upside down off the side and i suck his **** that way. Please note that depending on how tall your H/SO is that you may need to lay on pillows to get everything lined up properly.
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He also loves it when I lay on my back across the bed (width not length) I hang my head upside down off the side and i suck his **** that way. Please note that depending on how tall your H/SO is that you may need to lay on pillows to get everything lined up properly.
Ima do this Although, we have a platform bed which is about a foot off the ground he'll have to kneel.

I'll put a pillow down for him.
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These are awesome!!!!
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