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Old 11-03-2011, 03:10 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I really need some help, men, can you tell me new ways to drive my man crazy in bed? I want him begging for more. I know oral is huge. No problem there but I want to find more ways to turn him completely mad in the bedroom!
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Also, any tricks to helping hit the gspot I am always satisfied but not through penetration. And positions or ideas would be great!!!
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Honestly, oral doesn't do anything for me. And I have no reason to think my partner isn't "good" at it, but it's me.

What drives me crazy is a partner who's really into it. I love the sounds she makes. I love her nails down my back. I want her to lose control because it feels so good.

As far as the g-spot thing goes... I can't hit her g-spot through penetration, or at least, I haven't been successful at that yet. Only through fingers. So I'm looking forward to any suggestions.

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My wife changing the TV channel during sex made me pretty insane!!!
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My wife changing the TV channel during sex made me pretty insane!!!
Not so sure that's the "craZy" she is looking for...
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I really need some help, men, can you tell me new ways to drive my man crazy in bed? I want him begging for more. I know oral is huge. No problem there but I want to find more ways to turn him completely mad in the bedroom!
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My wife changing the TV channel during sex made me pretty insane!!!
Wow, can not imagine why you find yourself single again! JK

Honestly cowgirl my H and I are pretty tame I suspect, but there are two things that totally get him worked up:
If I just completely blindside him when he least expects it and give him no option but to do me now.
When I take over and either tell him exactly what I want him to do, or just do whatever I want to do to get off.
No idea why, but the man loves ****ty/bossy wife. He's putty in my hands for days after one of those nights.
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Insane? Tie him up at the wrists and ankles. Put him in mittens first so he really isn't able to get out of the 8 dollar safety cuffs from the mall. Let him have enough pelvic freedom to thrust uselessly into the air. Tease him for at least an hour. Get your breath on his stuff, then move away. Tease, tease, tease. But never give him less than you were, at least not for more than a moment. Bring him to the edge five or six times. Fingernails gently grazing his most sensitive skin, just far enough away that his heartbeat reigns the distance in. For the big finish, a 69 position with some pg-13 breath play - he should be just starting to gasp while being force fed on your own body, and you should finish him with as emphatic a combo hj/oral as your arms can muster. Anyways that would be one way. I apologize if that was too graphic - I tried to not make it pornographic.
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Tie him up - real tight and secure. Tease him - methods above just fine. Just when he's getting to the brink...go shopping for a few hours.

Make sure he's gagged too. Especially if there are kids at home when you leave.
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The other hole?
Who's???
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Wow, can not imagine why you find yourself single again! JK
How is that MY fault?

I mean - it could have been - but it wasn't!!!
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Well, there's 3 to choose from not been afraid of any of them LOL
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Ok I have pretty much done all of the above. Keep posting though I am gonna run to the tack shed and get a rope its been a while since we played rodeo! Hahahaha see if I can stay on longer than 8 seconds!
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The fact that you're asking means you're probably already great in bed for him -- do you think he has any reason to want more?

But my keys:

#1 is always enthusiasm. If you're acting like you love it, he'll love it.

#2 someone mentioned 'worshipping' him, that's key. And it goes with enthusiasm. I had this old GF who would bounce up and down on my yelling "God you're ____ huge." She probably said that to all her BFs, but it made me feel like a god!

#3 a fun thing that I like: wear a dress and send him a text or email that says you want him to do you in that dress tonight

#4 a fun one I've done with my wife. Give him oral, but tell him that you're a voice activated *sucker. Like if he tells you what to do or how good it feels, you'll keep doing it. But if he isn't saying anything, slow down until you stop. I've actually done this with new women before to learn what they like orally, and since it's part of a 'game' they're more willing to tell me what to do -- and I can learn what they like.
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