12-27-2008, 09:53 PM
Join Date: Dec 2008
| | Re: Regarding anal sex
Originally Posted by LucyInSC
Anal sex is something that I know my husband wants and enjoys. We have only done it once and it hurt me terribly even though he tried to be gentle and used lots of lubrication. He won't attempt it again because of my pain. My question is this. Is there physical harm to anal sex? How can we make it hurt less? I really want to do this and enjoy it. I know it would be a big turn on for him.
From personal experience, I know that it stops hurting after the first few times. The first time, for me, was probably the most painful experience of my lifetime, but eventually, I started enjoying it immensely, and will beg him for it from time to time. However, when I dated a guy with a penis that curved slightly, anal didn't work without immense pain, so if your guy isn't totally straight, it might not be worth it.