I can relate to your husband, and may be able to provide some insight from a man's point of view. I too, share your husband's attraction to female feet. It took me, however, 20 years to share it with my wife. She, unfortunately, did not respond quite how I had hoped. It is clear to me that she thinks it's weird, and at this point, tolerates my desires to some degree. I would strongly advise you not to ridicule or embarrass your husband, he probably feels strange enough as it is. Who knows where our desires originate? I would assume that you would prefer that he not satisfy that particular need outside of your marriage. What I have learned in analyzing the odd sense of pleasure I get from my wife's feet, is that I am aroused by seeing them visually, and touching them with my hands and my face. I'm not really attracted to the smell, but rather the sensation of the bottom of her soft feet on my face. I realize it sounds odd, but it's just the way it is for me. What I would like out of my wife, would be to for me to get the very clear impression that she knows what I want and like, and that she WANTS to meet that need. I don't like to feel like I have to drag her feet out from underneath the covers in order to give her a foot massage. Honestly, giving her a foot massage or putting her feet on my face, if I thought she genuinely enjoyed doing it, would be more arousing than masturbating on her feet. I would enjoy that too, particularly, if she just initiated it, but she'd think I was a serious pervert if I even suggested it. I would love it if my wife would put her bare feet on my lap at times, or if she had her feet up on a footstool and I was in the room, to remove her shoes and socks, a give me a knowing look, i.e. a look that says "I know what you want to do, and I approve." If we were in a restaurant, in an appropriately discrete setting, I would love it if she would remove her shoes and put her foot up where I could discretely touch it, again without a word but with a knowing look. If you need to talk about it with him, be certain to reassure him that you like it, or are very willing to explore it with him, because you want to please him. My wife is a very good woman, but she is very blind in this area and really has no idea how frustrated and embarrassed she makes me feel in this area, don't do that to your husband. The last suggestion is to keep your feet in good condition. A regular pedicure is nice, and don't hesitate to ask him what type of color he likes on your toes, I think a french pedicure is particularly nice. I have offered many times to give my wife regular pedicures, but she basically thinks it's weird, unfortunately. Good luck, I hope this input is useful.
Great to hear from that perspective too. It is something that will probably take a bit of getting used to, only because it is almost the opposite of anything I've ever thought of in a sexual nature. Aside from that, I love my husband, and want to make him happy in the bedroom and out of it, so I definitely appreciate the insight of things you'd like and not like so I can utilize his newly-admitted fetish. I would say that he definitely seems to like the bottoms of my feet on his face, too, so anything else you can tell me about what your wife has done, or you want her to do, to involve this idea would be much appreciated
I also have always been very particular about taking care of my feet anyway, so I suppose I will continue doing the same, but with new fervor hehe. I've always been very involved in sports, but also used to compete in dance and beauty pageants, so I would have to pay extra attention to maintaining my feet for those events especially when they were likely to get beat up quickly from sports. Even so, aside from getting my toes done, I've always been put off by having rough bottoms, so they are fortunately quite soft
I'm also curious: it seems like there is a bit of attention paid to wrinkly bottoms. Is that true in your case or do you know it to be? My best friend growing up used to make fun of how "scrunchy" the bottoms of my feet would get in some ballet stances, so maybe there is another bit of fortunate luck? hehe