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post #16 of 66 (permalink) Old 11-05-2011, 11:39 PM
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My man and I have a mutual disgust for feet. I don't understand foot fetishes at all.
I guess if any of us were to try and explain why one part of the body is sexy or not, we would run right smack into the "Explaining sight to a blind man" paradox. "Turn ons" and "Turn offs" are entirely a matter of personal perception.

If you find feet disgusting, there's a lot for you to be disgusted about in advertising. Showing a female model in bare feet is one of the most common ways to either add or increase the sexual element of the advert.

Here's a few examples I've noticed in the magazines my wife reads. (Vanity Fair, Vogue, Marie Claire, & Town & Country)

Scarlet Johansson is currently advertising for Moet & Chandon. One of the adverts shows her reclining on a couch while holding a champagne glass with her bare toes

There's a fairly current add for Tom Ford eyewear which shows a male model having his mouth forced open by a woman's bare foot while she pours wine in his mouth.

Guess Marciano, Emanuel Ungaro, Tom Ford, and half a dozen others have run ads where a man is giving a woman a pedicure. These were all ads for products that had nothing to do with feet.

Recent advertisements depicting a female model using a male model for a footrest include Voodoo hosiery, Bebe, Armani and Atwood shoes

Guess, Hudson, Levis and American Apparel have all run recent ads for jeans which prominently feature the bare feet of female models. As with the other examples, this is entirely superfluous vis a vis the actual product itself. There's no reason (Other than sexuality) why the models could not have been wearing shoes.
...And these are only ads for clothing and apparel. If you start looking at ads for food, motor vehicles and promotional artwork for movies and record albums, you see much the same thing.
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post #17 of 66 (permalink) Old 11-06-2011, 07:56 AM
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Lexi,

You mentioned that he may have felt embarrassed by it, afterwards. I think you should address this immediately, to not those feelings longer. It seems that after some talking here, you ve become okay with it. Tell him that. If you're comfortable, try telling him how hot it was to see him so worked up, or something g to that effect. Make the point that you don't feel embarrassed, and neither should he. Rather, yu're excited to have found something new that brings him pleasure.

If that's not how you feel, I get it. But I still advise you to handle it so he knows you don't want him to be embarrassed.
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Re: My husband and my feet...

If he likes them, do not make fun of it, do not make a point to talk and talk about it.

But consider subtly working it in another couple of times during play. Set it up a little, but don't be obvious and don't admit it, just set it up and give him access and see what happens. You may have found a new fun way to spice it up!
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Lexi,

You mentioned that he may have felt embarrassed by it, afterwards. I think you should address this immediately, to not those feelings longer. It seems that after some talking here, you ve become okay with it. Tell him that. If you're comfortable, try telling him how hot it was to see him so worked up, or something g to that effect. Make the point that you don't feel embarrassed, and neither should he. Rather, yu're excited to have found something new that brings him pleasure.

If that's not how you feel, I get it. But I still advise you to handle it so he knows you don't want him to be embarrassed.
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Thank you for your insight also It wasn't so much that I was not okay with it, but more that I was just confused and at a loss as to the whole prospect. Having said that though, last night, when he got home, I was able to subtly address it in a way that wasn't putting him on the spot or bound to make him uncomfortable talking about it. Basically, he admitted that he has a foot fetish, and that he's gotten incredibly aroused since knowing me over the thought of being sexual with my feet, but didn't have the nerve to do anything or tell me because of some past negative experiences and experiences with women who didn't understand the whole concept. He said that he couldn't contain himself any longer yesterday, and that my view was correct, that it was the hardest he has ever cummed in his life.


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To someone partial to feet, smell is very important. Sneakers produce a very unique aroma as do say heels & hosiery. Even bare feet in a pair of leather shoes such as flats produce yet another unique aroma. ALL of them are treasured by any man who is partial to feet. I do the same thing with my wife's feet when she gets home from work. Some say they smell, I say her feet are as sweet as the finest wine. Find a middle ground and enjoy, its 100% normal...
Thank you He confessed to being the most aroused by me wearing sneakers and the thought of smelling them after I've had them on for a while. I am not put off by it, just have to admit that it is such a new and different concept to me lol. I've never viewed my feet, especially sweaty, as anything more than a potential embarrassment, so using them as an arousal method is def gonna take some practice hehe
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Lexi1992,
I can relate to your husband, and may be able to provide some insight from a man's point of view. I too, share your husband's attraction to female feet. It took me, however, 20 years to share it with my wife. She, unfortunately, did not respond quite how I had hoped. It is clear to me that she thinks it's weird, and at this point, tolerates my desires to some degree. I would strongly advise you not to ridicule or embarrass your husband, he probably feels strange enough as it is. Who knows where our desires originate? I would assume that you would prefer that he not satisfy that particular need outside of your marriage. What I have learned in analyzing the odd sense of pleasure I get from my wife's feet, is that I am aroused by seeing them visually, and touching them with my hands and my face. I'm not really attracted to the smell, but rather the sensation of the bottom of her soft feet on my face. I realize it sounds odd, but it's just the way it is for me. What I would like out of my wife, would be to for me to get the very clear impression that she knows what I want and like, and that she WANTS to meet that need. I don't like to feel like I have to drag her feet out from underneath the covers in order to give her a foot massage. Honestly, giving her a foot massage or putting her feet on my face, if I thought she genuinely enjoyed doing it, would be more arousing than masturbating on her feet. I would enjoy that too, particularly, if she just initiated it, but she'd think I was a serious pervert if I even suggested it. I would love it if my wife would put her bare feet on my lap at times, or if she had her feet up on a footstool and I was in the room, to remove her shoes and socks, a give me a knowing look, i.e. a look that says "I know what you want to do, and I approve." If we were in a restaurant, in an appropriately discrete setting, I would love it if she would remove her shoes and put her foot up where I could discretely touch it, again without a word but with a knowing look. If you need to talk about it with him, be certain to reassure him that you like it, or are very willing to explore it with him, because you want to please him. My wife is a very good woman, but she is very blind in this area and really has no idea how frustrated and embarrassed she makes me feel in this area, don't do that to your husband. The last suggestion is to keep your feet in good condition. A regular pedicure is nice, and don't hesitate to ask him what type of color he likes on your toes, I think a french pedicure is particularly nice. I have offered many times to give my wife regular pedicures, but she basically thinks it's weird, unfortunately. Good luck, I hope this input is useful.
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Thank you for your insight also It wasn't so much that I was not okay with it, but more that I was just confused and at a loss as to the whole prospect.
I suppose from a woman's point of view, it might be like buying a gift for your child and then finding out that the child prefers playing with the box instead.

But if a man likes your feet, it's a fair bet that he likes everything else about you too. I love my wife's feet, but it's the back of her neck that really drives me up the wall. --And I can't even begin to explain why...
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Lexi1992,
I can relate to your husband, and may be able to provide some insight from a man's point of view. I too, share your husband's attraction to female feet. It took me, however, 20 years to share it with my wife. She, unfortunately, did not respond quite how I had hoped. It is clear to me that she thinks it's weird, and at this point, tolerates my desires to some degree. I would strongly advise you not to ridicule or embarrass your husband, he probably feels strange enough as it is. Who knows where our desires originate? I would assume that you would prefer that he not satisfy that particular need outside of your marriage. What I have learned in analyzing the odd sense of pleasure I get from my wife's feet, is that I am aroused by seeing them visually, and touching them with my hands and my face. I'm not really attracted to the smell, but rather the sensation of the bottom of her soft feet on my face. I realize it sounds odd, but it's just the way it is for me. What I would like out of my wife, would be to for me to get the very clear impression that she knows what I want and like, and that she WANTS to meet that need. I don't like to feel like I have to drag her feet out from underneath the covers in order to give her a foot massage. Honestly, giving her a foot massage or putting her feet on my face, if I thought she genuinely enjoyed doing it, would be more arousing than masturbating on her feet. I would enjoy that too, particularly, if she just initiated it, but she'd think I was a serious pervert if I even suggested it. I would love it if my wife would put her bare feet on my lap at times, or if she had her feet up on a footstool and I was in the room, to remove her shoes and socks, a give me a knowing look, i.e. a look that says "I know what you want to do, and I approve." If we were in a restaurant, in an appropriately discrete setting, I would love it if she would remove her shoes and put her foot up where I could discretely touch it, again without a word but with a knowing look. If you need to talk about it with him, be certain to reassure him that you like it, or are very willing to explore it with him, because you want to please him. My wife is a very good woman, but she is very blind in this area and really has no idea how frustrated and embarrassed she makes me feel in this area, don't do that to your husband. The last suggestion is to keep your feet in good condition. A regular pedicure is nice, and don't hesitate to ask him what type of color he likes on your toes, I think a french pedicure is particularly nice. I have offered many times to give my wife regular pedicures, but she basically thinks it's weird, unfortunately. Good luck, I hope this input is useful.
Great to hear from that perspective too. It is something that will probably take a bit of getting used to, only because it is almost the opposite of anything I've ever thought of in a sexual nature. Aside from that, I love my husband, and want to make him happy in the bedroom and out of it, so I definitely appreciate the insight of things you'd like and not like so I can utilize his newly-admitted fetish. I would say that he definitely seems to like the bottoms of my feet on his face, too, so anything else you can tell me about what your wife has done, or you want her to do, to involve this idea would be much appreciated I also have always been very particular about taking care of my feet anyway, so I suppose I will continue doing the same, but with new fervor hehe. I've always been very involved in sports, but also used to compete in dance and beauty pageants, so I would have to pay extra attention to maintaining my feet for those events especially when they were likely to get beat up quickly from sports. Even so, aside from getting my toes done, I've always been put off by having rough bottoms, so they are fortunately quite soft I'm also curious: it seems like there is a bit of attention paid to wrinkly bottoms. Is that true in your case or do you know it to be? My best friend growing up used to make fun of how "scrunchy" the bottoms of my feet would get in some ballet stances, so maybe there is another bit of fortunate luck? hehe
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Not a big deal, Lexi. Very common for some men to have a "thing" for feet. I bet if you asked him to masturbate onto your feet sometime, he would lose his freakin' MIND.

It's all fun, girl!
No, it's not a big deal at all. I wouldn't recommend "talking" to him about it. Better yet, go get a nice pedicure and while your feet are all nice and pretty, *use* them to HIS excitement! Take it from someone with experience in using her feet to please him: try taking his c*ck between your feet and toes and work them up and down on his. If he's REALLY into your feet, he'll get off on this. HAVE FUN!!!!! Sex isn't just about "sex".
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Take it from someone with experience in using her feet to please him: try taking his c*ck between your feet and toes and work them up and down on his. If he's REALLY into your feet, he'll get off on this.
THIS....just might be enough to turn me into a "foot guy."
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I have been married 18 yrs and my wife's feet are a huge turnon for me , She knows this and has know since s long as I can remember.. to spice thing up she always uses different ways to get me off.. I love a good HJ , but prefer her feet 10 fold to this ..
Blow jobs , rarely .. i am a little to thick and she gets sore easy..and the teeth....

So , she enjoys it too as I usually give alot of foot massages..

Lately , If we have friends over and are drinking , she always hints at my "fetish" I have noticed some of my friends wives getting there feet in opentoed shoes and also barefooting it alot more..

O well , kinky I will always be..

Try giving him a footjob , he will go ballistic , I guarantee it
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Try giving him a footjob , he will go ballistic , I guarantee it
It's VERY erotic....for me as well.
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You know my wife says exactly the same thing. She loves footjobs nearly as much as I do...!


Something about the warmth and softness of the penis skin and the warmth of the........man lotion!!! WOW!!


TO THE FEET GODS!!!!!
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i am the recipient of similar behavior, i never had a clue until one day it happened and its is a fairly regualr part of foreplay now, it doesnt bother me one bit as i am glad there is a passion for something a little off the wall
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Lexi, I too am attracted to feet. It is very embarrassing to reveal this because so many people look at it as us being weird or freaks. Please take it easy on your husband because when my wife found out about my desire for her feet, I couldn't look her in the face. Feet is also very important for me in our relationship. If she were to tell me that I could not play with her feet at all, it would be hard for me to want to stay in our relationship. When we first met, I had no idea what her feet looked like as I was only interested in her personality and beautiful face. I thought I could ignore my foot desire and just try to be "normal". But as time went on, I needed to at least try to kiss her feet. I feel lucky that she was willing to let me do what I wanted to her feet in order to make our marriage a lasting one. She told me at first it was weird for her because she never experienced it before, but now, she enjoys it. She said when I suck her toes while watching tv, its comforting and puts her to sleep. I also love licking the bottom of my wife's feet. The smell of feet isn't a strong desire for me, although I do like it. But I prefer when my wife's feet have been walking in shoes all day.
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