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Old 11-07-2011, 05:54 PM   #31 (permalink)
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There does seem to be a particular attraction, for some men, to the sole of the foot when it is wrinkly. Although I like that look, I just like the bottom of my wife's feet either way. I like it when she moves her feet up and down between toes pointed and soles wrinkled and toes up and flared out. The visual attraction is just incredibly strong, and I can't quite explain it.

The other thing that is quite arousing to me is when we are lying in bed and my wife rubs along my leg with the bottom of her foot, very sensual!! Basically, anytime my wife would take the initiative to deliberately move her feet in to my view, or in reach of me (i.e. hands, face, etc.) I get such an incredible feeling of arousal and fulfillment I cannot explain it. Furthermore, in this era of rampant infidelity (in the mind or the body) I couldn't be farther from any speck of consideration of thinking about another woman. I think your husband is very lucky that you are so interested in meeting that need/desire for him!
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:25 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Ok so your hubby is turned on by something most people would find disgusting, how is that a bad thing lol. I say gym it up more and let the good times roll
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There does seem to be a particular attraction, for some men, to the sole of the foot when it is wrinkly. Although I like that look, I just like the bottom of my wife's feet either way. I like it when she moves her feet up and down between toes pointed and soles wrinkled and toes up and flared out. The visual attraction is just incredibly strong, and I can't quite explain it.

The other thing that is quite arousing to me is when we are lying in bed and my wife rubs along my leg with the bottom of her foot, very sensual!! Basically, anytime my wife would take the initiative to deliberately move her feet in to my view, or in reach of me (i.e. hands, face, etc.) I get such an incredible feeling of arousal and fulfillment I cannot explain it. Furthermore, in this era of rampant infidelity (in the mind or the body) I couldn't be farther from any speck of consideration of thinking about another woman. I think your husband is very lucky that you are so interested in meeting that need/desire for him!
Thank you so so much for all of your insight My husband also seems to be a big fan of what I think you are describing (extending my toes towards my face, then flexing them forward as hard as I can repeatedly). He kept telling me to "crunch" them harder, if that makes any sense hehe
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Old 11-08-2011, 08:41 AM   #34 (permalink)
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Everyone has been so helpful Things seem to be coming along well in this regard, and it is definitely in large part due to all of the great info I've received. I still have A LOT to learn, so please keep the great advice flowing, especially those women who once found themselves in my position (not really knowing what to do in the beginning lol). Last night seemed to be a major step in the right direction though...I tended bar for ten hours, so needless to say, I assumed my feet/sneakers would be how he liked them When I got home, I talked about being on my feet all day long and was nonchalant about it, then I sat down next to him on the couch and swung my feet onto his lap and just innocently asked him "Don't you want to smell my feet baby?"...WOW...he tore my socks and sneakers off and did the same thing as before, where he put his face deep into the bottoms of my feet. I thought he was going to have a stroke within two minutes from the intensity of his orgasm (he usually tends to take a very long time to cum, so I was quite suprised by this as well!). Sorry if this is a bit too much info, but I just wanted to share the progression of how things are going, and I am hoping for the best in this area!
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Now that you got it working, don't over use it, say keep it to once a week or so. He say beg for more, but the little bit of denial will keep it fresh, and make room for other play fun.
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Old 11-08-2011, 04:54 PM   #36 (permalink)
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I must say that my wife has the cutest feet I have ever seen!! I love to kiss them and have her rub them on my legs...and other places. Of course, she is cute all over!! I don't get the high heel thing. I would rather see her barefoot...especially in a pair of short-shorts...WOW!!!
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Everyone has been so helpful Things seem to be coming along well in this regard, and it is definitely in large part due to all of the great info I've received. I still have A LOT to learn, so please keep the great advice flowing, especially those women who once found themselves in my position (not really knowing what to do in the beginning lol). Last night seemed to be a major step in the right direction though...I tended bar for ten hours, so needless to say, I assumed my feet/sneakers would be how he liked them When I got home, I talked about being on my feet all day long and was nonchalant about it, then I sat down next to him on the couch and swung my feet onto his lap and just innocently asked him "Don't you want to smell my feet baby?"...WOW...he tore my socks and sneakers off and did the same thing as before, where he put his face deep into the bottoms of my feet. I thought he was going to have a stroke within two minutes from the intensity of his orgasm (he usually tends to take a very long time to cum, so I was quite suprised by this as well!). Sorry if this is a bit too much info, but I just wanted to share the progression of how things are going, and I am hoping for the best in this area!

Thats how I am. During sex, I'm not very quick to orgasm, but once my wife puts her toes in my mouth and soles in my face, it's all over. My wife uses that to her advantage. If she wants multiple orgasms or longer sex, she won't let me touch her feet during sex. Once she has orgasmed and is done, or wants me to orgasm fast, she then shoves her toes in my mouth. I too love it when my wife has been at work or walking around in shoes for quite some time and then asks me to kiss her feet. The relationship I'm in is what I've fantasized my entire life, thanks to my wife.
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Everyone has been so helpful Things seem to be coming along well in this regard, and it is definitely in large part due to all of the great info I've received. I still have A LOT to learn, so please keep the great advice flowing, especially those women who once found themselves in my position (not really knowing what to do in the beginning lol). Last night seemed to be a major step in the right direction though...I tended bar for ten hours, so needless to say, I assumed my feet/sneakers would be how he liked them When I got home, I talked about being on my feet all day long and was nonchalant about it, then I sat down next to him on the couch and swung my feet onto his lap and just innocently asked him "Don't you want to smell my feet baby?"...WOW...he tore my socks and sneakers off and did the same thing as before, where he put his face deep into the bottoms of my feet. I thought he was going to have a stroke within two minutes from the intensity of his orgasm (he usually tends to take a very long time to cum, so I was quite suprised by this as well!). Sorry if this is a bit too much info, but I just wanted to share the progression of how things are going, and I am hoping for the best in this area!
Wow, you're an angel! I am certain that your husband is absolutely elated that you have so enthusiastically embraced an important interest he has, one which many may think is peculiar (like my wife). Best of luck to you for a long and happy marriage, keep communicating!

It has been very interesting, and refreshing, to hear that there are other men with the same interest, and women who embrace it. I randomly stumbled on to this website, and the first post I saw was your posting. The title drew me in immediately! I have mentioned my interest in feet to two women, an old girlfriend and my wife, and both responded less than enthusiastically. Thanks for the encouragement that I'm not completely crazy! Lol!
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Old 11-08-2011, 10:04 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Lexi,

Congrats on opening up to new experiences with your husband. As tough as we men want to be, it can be extremely difficult to open up about things (especially sex fantasies) that some could label as "unusual". Embarrasment and humiliation, particularly from a woman, can be devastating. I think you handled this quite well, and your husband feels safe with you about this. On a deeper level beyond body parts, this could strengthen your bond.

I do agree with Shaggy, as I would not have this dominate your sex life (as in using it often). Not doing it every day could keep it fresh, fun, and special, perhaps as a reward for being a "good boy". Or a bad boy, whatever you're into.
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Everyone has been so helpful Things seem to be coming along well in this regard, and it is definitely in large part due to all of the great info I've received. I still have A LOT to learn, so please keep the great advice flowing, especially those women who once found themselves in my position (not really knowing what to do in the beginning lol). Last night seemed to be a major step in the right direction though...I tended bar for ten hours, so needless to say, I assumed my feet/sneakers would be how he liked them When I got home, I talked about being on my feet all day long and was nonchalant about it, then I sat down next to him on the couch and swung my feet onto his lap and just innocently asked him "Don't you want to smell my feet baby?"...WOW...he tore my socks and sneakers off and did the same thing as before, where he put his face deep into the bottoms of my feet. I thought he was going to have a stroke within two minutes from the intensity of his orgasm (he usually tends to take a very long time to cum, so I was quite suprised by this as well!). Sorry if this is a bit too much info, but I just wanted to share the progression of how things are going, and I am hoping for the best in this area!
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Although there is probably wisdom in the advice of shaggy and whip morgan, i.e. ration your husband's access to your feet, I would advise otherwise. You're newly married and have found something you both can enjoy (him immensely), therefore my advice is to let him have them as often as he wants. Personally, I desire to at least touch my wife's feet daily. Certainly, if she is anywhere in my vicinity, particularly if we we are alone, I have a strong desire to touch her feet. I realize that every time I do that it doesn't have to lead to mind blowing intimacy, but what woman could complain too much about getting a daily foot massage? My wife doesn't quite get it, but you and a number of other ladies sure seem to. Your husband will be thrilled to get "unlimited access!" Enjoy it!!
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You've received a lot of great comments, so not much I can add. Just go with it. I hope the comments have helped you get over those first feelings of weirdness, but there's nothing strange about a husband liking his wife's feet.
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Let us know how things are going now Lexi. Have you tried anything new with your feet
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Everyone has been so helpful Things seem to be coming along well in this regard, and it is definitely in large part due to all of the great info I've received. I still have A LOT to learn, so please keep the great advice flowing, especially those women who once found themselves in my position (not really knowing what to do in the beginning lol). Last night seemed to be a major step in the right direction though...I tended bar for ten hours, so needless to say, I assumed my feet/sneakers would be how he liked them When I got home, I talked about being on my feet all day long and was nonchalant about it, then I sat down next to him on the couch and swung my feet onto his lap and just innocently asked him "Don't you want to smell my feet baby?"...WOW...he tore my socks and sneakers off and did the same thing as before, where he put his face deep into the bottoms of my feet. I thought he was going to have a stroke within two minutes from the intensity of his orgasm (he usually tends to take a very long time to cum, so I was quite suprised by this as well!). Sorry if this is a bit too much info, but I just wanted to share the progression of how things are going, and I am hoping for the best in this area!
Any new stories about your feet to share with us Lexi? :-)
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Wow lexi great, let me share my experience with you.One thing thats not mentioned in the discussion any where is that, in lots of cases foot fetish people have also inclination towards a little FEMDOM i.e female dominant attitude.
For example let take you case, where you have take the initiative and ask him to smell your feet.See that may arouse him more.
As i try with my wife, like when she is talking on phone or watching tv i become her footstool in different positions.I let her feet rest on face while she is talking or watching tv.its great.
try this too,orfer him to be your footstool,i sense he would love it.
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