DanF

Giving oral sex is an act of selflessness. I love to go down on my wife because I get to see and experience her pleasure without her worrying about mine. I love the smell, the taste, and seeing and hearing her experience pure satisfaction.
I will do it until she begs me to stop and she loves it as well. I enjoy receiving oral immensely for the same reasons. I don't have to concentrate on her pleasure or worry that I am doing everything just right. My wife says that she loves seeing the expression on my face when I come.
Enjoy it and reciprocate!

OhGeesh

I disagree that it's selfless on either party's part! My wife get's a kick out of Head and like many guys I love going down on my wife. I don't think it's selfless at all because I like it.

Now her having some domination issues and wanting to use a strap on.........ON ME!! That would be selfless on MY PART and to be honest not sure how hyped I'd be about it.

Oral........shoot that's fun!!

Dadeo

Hi All,

Well i am sorta new here and i guess this is a good a place to jump into things as any so here goes. This whole oral thing can be either blown up into a huge deal, or diregaurded to the point of dangerousness... From a mans perspective, oral is about intimacy. It is a sexual act that is simply for your partner, it is you opening up and sharing a part of yourself with the person you are "with". It does not really matter which way it is going. it is about sharing that little personal piece of yourself with someone you trust.
Advice from a man? open up and take it for what it is meant as.