My boyfriend loves to have oral sex with me and last night he said he do it all night we have more oral sex than intercourse what is the big attraction?I like to have intercourse more often that oral sex but I can't seem to get him to do that.
I don't want this to be a matter of tmi, but I wonder if it's something to do with using more of the senses. I know you were asking this of the men, but my hubby loves it too. I think he likes the fact that he is using all of his senses at once. Although he loves intercourse, it really only touches on his senses of touch, sight, and hearing (there's no smelling or tasting involved). Depending on how your hubby is doing it (the angle) he may also enjoy the view he's getting of your body and your body's reaction during the process.
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My boyfriend loves to have oral sex with me and last night he said he do it all night we have more oral sex than intercourse what is the big attraction?I like to have intercourse more often that oral sex but I can't seem to get him to do that.
How long does intercourse last between you and your boyfriend? I ask because men suffering from premature ejaculation often prefer oral sex because intimacy lasts longer... "all night" if need be; this way a man is better assured of satisfying his partner. Just a thought.
If that's the case, it's not hopeless. There are fun things that you two can do to work through it (various positions, stop-start and, squeeze methods, etc.). Of course, he may not perceive this to be a problem. And explaining that there's something about his lovemaking that is not perfect while preserving his ego is a real challenge. Whew, I'm certainly glad that I'm a man and don't have to put up with one of us!
As a man, I personally choose to go down on the woman I love for her pleasure. Yes I do love to go down on her and love the taste and smell, but only because she enjoys it...that is the true reason behind it.
Like someone else said he might have problems with premature ejaculation (I suffered from this for quite some time), it is very very hard to deal with and talk about as a guy. I remember when I could barely go a few thrusts with my girlfriend. So I would resort to tongue or fingers, though obviously she enjoyed penetration more.
Your husband is most likely trying to make you happy the best way he can, if like me, we is probably extremely worried about pleasing you.
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