My wife was a virgin in high school. Played softball. After high school she became pregnant at 18 by her first boyfriend. Was on birth control and took antibiotics. At 19 was a mom. At 20 we met fell in love and moved in together. Got married at 24. I am 20 years older than her. Bought a house and have had a great marriage. During the last year my wife was promoted to a manager at her job, started coming home and drinking wine, was watching Netflix "Orange Is The New Black" and now "Wentworth". About a month ago she asked me for a divorce saying she was not attracted to be, he does not wish to have sex, but she kept sleeping with me. Finally she went out with her only friend to see a movie. She admitted he was questioning her sexuality. She wanted to have sex with another women. She said she loves me, wants the marriage, wants sex with me, but she is just curious because she never had her wild 20's. We talked for days and she committed to she would be up front and honest. She said she wanted to just try it, no relationship, and only 1 time. She said our marriage is not in jeopardy. She asked me to support her and I agreed. She said she just wants to get it out of her system. She got a private Gmail account and placed and add on Craigslist. When I discovered it she said "how am I to meet someone I don't know. She did not think it was a big deal. I explained she was not upfront and honest with me. We talked more and the definition of sex with another women and what she wanted were totally different. She wants to make out and fondle another woman. After our discussion she deleted one add and posted another. I asked her about it and she lied to me. She did come clean and admitted it a day later and told me she was talking to someone. I asked her when she going out on the date? she said it was no date just a meeting. She refused to call these meetings dates. Our sex life has been great, yet, I am worried she will like it and pursue it. She keeps saying if I can't deal with it she will stop. But I feel she will hold it against me for the rest of my life. She says she will probably chicken out. What do I do? I love her to much that if she kisses another woman once it will destroy us. So if she does what she is saying I feel it's no big deal. I am in therapy now. My wife will not go. And she recommends I allow my wife to go through with it. But I don't know how to handle this? Please help.